Straight Curious man

[curious]

Hi.

I am looking to experiment with a man for the first time, possibly just a blow job at first to see how it goes... In Medway, Kent.

Any advice...

Thank you

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Just a blow job means what - you do the sucking or you get sucked?

Assuming its all about your dick in someone else's mouth - well a mouth is a mouth and contrary to popular belief not all gays are actually that good at it. Meaning not better at giving head than women.

Now if its you giving head - then you need to sit there and ask yourself why it is you want another man's dick in your mouth.

IDK - do you watch a lot of gay porn? Read a lot of gay erotica? IF so the image of cock-sucking may be a wee bit off to the reality of the situation.


As for meeting people face to face (guys) there are bars/clubs/pubs for face to face interactions with strangers. There is Craigslist where I have peeked in from time to time to see what the natives are up to - it appears to me there are a lot of openings there for a safe contact. Just make certain that you all meet in a public place first time around to get to you know sort of thing.

There are also a number of apps for that - Grind'r is a good one for casual sex hook-ups.

Since all you want here is a blow-job situation, then you should either look for an advert that wants head or gives head (I see on craigslist there are a few cock-suckers in my town who weekly post their 'desire' to meet up with a guy for giving head.

I would warn you to look up the list of STD's that can cross orally. I won't do this homework for you.

Be good to you, and be safe.

[meridannight]

good luck.

as for advice, be honest with the guy(s) you hook up with. tell him what you're in for, and what you're NOT in for. when you're having sex, tell him what you like, and what you don't like; tell him when it feels good. would be nice if you returned the favor too, but if you're not too sure about that, then even the simplest things like placing your hands in his hair while he's going down on you is enough of reciprocity sometimes. (i say this, because i've gone down on a couple of guys who didn't do this; they kept no physical contact with me, besides the obvious, and i did not like that. you don't have to necessarily return the favor, but some other form of physical contact is strongly recommended).

[curious]

Thank you for the reply.

It's more my dick in their mouth, I'm trying to figure myself out the thought of kissing a man is not my thing... Cheers

[Lexington]

I'm a bit far from Kent - otherwise, I'd be there. Does the idea of a guy going down on you excite you more (or differently) than the thought of a woman doing the same thing?

Your best bet would probably to start an account on a hookup site. Be very clear and specific about what you want to try. Make sure you say "straight but curious" - there's a LOT of gay guys out there who are really into that sort of thing.

Lex

[Rareboy]

For the sake of science...I'd help out...but Canada is a little far away from Kent. And my partner probably wouldn't like it. Good luck. There's going to be someone out there to answer the call.

[curious]

Only replies from over the water lol.. IDK the thought of something different I think

[Lexington]

There's a few Brits around here, so you might get a nibble...well, not a literal one, but you get the idea.

Honestly, I do think an account on a hook-up site would be the best way to go. "Single straight guy in Kent, curious, looking to just receive oral to start with and see how it goes. Public meet-up first time a must."

Lex

[Radbot42]

I'd have to agree with all the other comments. Go to a hookup site like Grindr. This is not a place where you are going to find hookups. More of a place to just to talk about pretty much anything. Please report back to us as we do love to hear details on these sorts of things. We are also a great place to give support on all these kinds of things.

[curious]

Cheers. Il let you know.