Back in the day, I would insist on dating first before going to bed. Now, I'd probably insist on going to bed before dating. Why? Because sex and sexual compatibility are very important to me. Why date somebody for weeks or even months just to find out that you don't like each other in bed?
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strider65 Wrote:does it ever strike anyone that very often gay men have sex first and get to know each other afterwards?
this isn't backwards to me. this is a natural course of events. i've always said sex is a good way to get to know a guy. it tells you a lot more about him than a dinner at a restaurant.
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I've known a lot of straight couples to start dating that way and a couple times it lead to a long term relationship. to me it's not a gay or straight thing it's a human thing, we saw something we liked, got a chance to test it out and wanted to keep it for a while.
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Why do my head spin so badly after reading the posts here.....
Its like I dont even know what I believe in anymore......
Aghhhhhh (psychopatic screams)
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