04-17-2015, 05:55 PM
Darius Wrote:Other than saying I am happy your mother is accepting, I am curious about some other things. You are 23 and your mother is acting like your mommy and checking on what you are doing. That is kind of creepy, don't you think? It sounds like you need to have boundaries with her. So what if you watch violent movies, you are a man. Imagine what would happen if she saw what you jack off to. Would she call you up because she was concerned you were watching bareback porn?
Are you by any chance the baby in the family or an only child?
I'm the youngest in my family, yes. And my mother's always been like that. She just doesn't like violence and doesn't understand the appeal in violence, unless the person watching has some kind of issues or is deep down a violent person. I've tried explaining to her on multiple occasions that just because I watch something violent or play a violent video game does not mean I'm a violent person and does not mean it'll make me do something bad. But even so, it still bothers her. What's more frustrating is that I'm not even all that attracted to ultra violent stuff. Like, I'm not interested in games like GTA or Mortal Kombat, and that one controversial game Hatred just looks gross... I prefer humor and cartoon violence. The majority of games I play are from Nintendo for God's sake. She worries way too much... :/