Curious guy - New to the site

[Thatdude118118]

I'm a curious guy, who wants to try various things with guys. I have absolutely no experience with guys, so I figured I'd come here.

Talk to me

PS - How do you post threads anonymously? It says it'll cost 50 points. How can I get points and where can I view my amount?

[Darius]

You get a point for every post you make in all the forums. It shows your post count below your name. It says you have 3 posts. You are anonymous because to us you are just thatdude, until you decide to share your real identity.

What do you want to talk about, man?

[Wolfpack]

Welcome to GS

Talk with us about whatever you want to.

[CellarDweller]

welcome to the forum

[Cridders88]

Welcome to the forum Thatdude

[himself]

Welcome. If you post a thread anonymously, I'll know it was you. Unless you make multiple ones to throw us off.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

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I'm a curious guy, who wants to try various things with guys. I have absolutely no experience with guys, so I figured I'd come here.

Talk to me

PS - How do you post threads anonymously? It says it'll cost 50 points. How can I get points and where can I view my amount?

Various things means what exactly? Hunting, Fishing, Camping???

Or are you talking about sex?

Understand that most (not all) gay guys are NOT looking for a "straight guy" to be an experiment.

Most of the guy guys here are here for friendships and if it happens a relationship. Few are looking for "just sex" here, and fewer are interested in taking on the burden of being a "straight guy's" first time experiment.

Craigslist may be a better place to meet up with a guy for a first time experience, BUT you need to be honest about what it is you want and want to try. Grind'r is an iPhone app which is used primarily for casual sex hookups. BOTH and many other sex oriented sites are full of players and even dangerous guys.

"Curious" is an interesting word used now days - so many closeted guys who are married, with kids do this "I'm a straight 'curious' man looking for a "first time experience." Truth is this is a game they play for shits and giggles.

There are in general a lot of unhappy experiences that make good, decent, caring type gay guys really leery of being a guy's first time experience.

In all honesty "gay curious" is not a good phrase. Either you know you are into guys or you ain't.

I would strongly urge you to sit down and compose a letter to yourself explaining to yourself what it is you are hoping to get out of this experience.

While the word is homosexual, sex is only a small part of what being gay is about. Its not sex that determines ones sexual orientation, its those other things like bonding with a mate, like companionship, like wanting to commit to a guy.

Sure, lust exists in humans, However sex is rarely the only thing sex is about. There is connections, intimacy - things like cuddling and sharing ones self with another makes or breaks the sex experience.

If you are looking to have your butt stuffed - there are plenty of alternatives. If you are looking for a mouth - well there are many. And any wet hole will do the same thing.

If you really want just a sex experience, there are plenty of male prostitutes out in the world who will do that just for you. Sure, its just sex, and yes it will cost you money, but both parties involved will know what is going on, and most male prostitutes have sufficient experience with "straight" men who are married, thus know the score.

50 post limit is a reasonable request, considering all the bashers and idiots that will come on and start their bigotry bullshit. The BEST thing for you is to read through the forum advice, chit-chat sub forums and get a feel for the type of advice we give.

Then there are the word games subforum - a simple way to wrack up the post count.

[MikeW]

...PS - How do you post threads anonymously? It says it'll cost 50 points. How can I get points and where can I view my amount?

Once you have 50 posts there are several forum features that become available to you. To post anonymously, you have to be in a sub-forum that allows that. Then you'll see a check box to the top right of your posting box that you can check if you want the post to show up as "anonymous".

We're happy to answer any questions you have. You needn't be shy about that. This is a fairly easy going and non-judgemental forum. For sure we do have our opinions about things and sometimes state them bluntly but, truth be told, even if we know your screen name, we don't now who or where YOU are. The point being you may not need the anonymous feature for most of your questions.

As far as wanting to have "experiences" with guys... we assume you mean sexual experiences, right? So there's no need to be ashamed of having those feelings. The question I would have is, have you had *any* sexual experiences (with girls for example)? When you look at porn, what excites you (assuming you do and it does)? When did you start having these feelings, desires, fantasies or whatever? How willing are you to meet up with out gay guys more or less your own age? Are you willing, for example, to go to some social function, like a LGBT meetup or mixer (something short of a gay bar or club)? Or are you only on the hunt for a quicky?

You don't have to answer any, let alone all, of those questions... their more just an example of what we don't know about you and what you may not even know about yourself. If so, perhaps you should give them some thought at least.