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Thatdude118118 Wrote:I'm a curious guy, who wants to try various things with guys. I have absolutely no experience with guys, so I figured I'd come here.
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PS - How do you post threads anonymously? It says it'll cost 50 points. How can I get points and where can I view my amount?
Various things means what exactly? Hunting, Fishing, Camping???
Or are you talking about sex?
Understand that most (not all) gay guys are NOT looking for a "straight guy" to be an experiment.
Most of the guy guys here are here for friendships and if it happens a relationship. Few are looking for "just sex" here, and fewer are interested in taking on the burden of being a "straight guy's" first time experiment.
Craigslist may be a better place to meet up with a guy for a first time experience, BUT you need to be honest about what it is you want and want to try. Grind'r is an iPhone app which is used primarily for casual sex hookups. BOTH and many other sex oriented sites are full of players and even dangerous guys.
"Curious" is an interesting word used now days - so many closeted guys who are married, with kids do this "I'm a straight 'curious' man looking for a "first time experience." Truth is this is a game they play for shits and giggles.
There are in general a lot of unhappy experiences that make good, decent, caring type gay guys really leery of being a guy's first time experience.
In all honesty "gay curious" is not a good phrase. Either you
know you are into guys or you ain't.
I would strongly urge you to sit down and compose a letter to yourself explaining to yourself what it is you are hoping to get out of this experience.
While the word is homosexual, sex is only a small part of what being gay is about. Its not sex that determines ones sexual orientation, its those other things like bonding with a mate, like companionship, like wanting to commit to a guy.
Sure, lust exists in humans, However sex is rarely the only thing sex is about. There is connections, intimacy - things like cuddling and sharing ones self with another makes or breaks the sex experience.
If you are looking to have your butt stuffed - there are plenty of alternatives. If you are looking for a mouth - well there are many. And any wet hole will do the same thing.
If you really want just a sex experience, there are plenty of male prostitutes out in the world who will do that just for you. Sure, its just sex, and yes it will cost you money, but both parties involved will know what is going on, and most male prostitutes have sufficient experience with "straight" men who are married, thus know the score.
50 post limit is a reasonable request, considering all the bashers and idiots that will come on and start their bigotry bullshit. The BEST thing for you is to read through the forum advice, chit-chat sub forums and get a feel for the type of advice we give.
Then there are the word games subforum - a simple way to wrack up the post count.