Will it hurt the first time with a big black man?

[Virgin]

Hello,

I'm 22 years old, and fantasy for years about gaysex.
So I'm met a nice, black man. He is tall, almost 6.5 feet (190cm) and I'm 5ft 5" (165cm).

So my question is..
Will it hurt to lose my virginity with a big cock? He has 8.5 inch (21cm).

He says he will be fuck me slowly.. But I have seen him fucking before with a another bottom and there he was a real beast.

Thanks in advance ans sorry for my English. (I'm working on it).

[Anocxu]

I say ..
Update your medical insurance to cover a wheelchair and Go for it!

Kidding...

Can you tell If this gentleman is truly a caring and sensitive guy ?

Are you positive he will respect you needs and your body..?

When you 'Watched' him having sex ... was the other guy enjoying it?

If you are unsure..
Just wait.. don't do it..or choose someone that you are sure of.

[LONDONER]

With a cock that size I'd say that it's certainly going to feel uncomfortable if you're still a virgin. You could try to dilate yourself beforehand with the aid of some dildos of varying sizes and plenty of lubrication.

Good luck and keep us informed.

[LJay]

As above.

Attitude and how sex is approached is all important. If you really want sex with this guy it will be a lot different than if you just do it.

Is it possible he would agree to play around without penetration a few times? Might be one way to approach it.

[Scootaloo]

The title is misleading, it will probably hurt because of the size, not because he is black.

But some people, myself included, like it to hurt a little bit.

[Insertnamehere]

The title is misleading, it will probably hurt because of the size, not because he is black.

Yeah I was about to say what does his ethnicity have to do with anything here.

[Beaux]

I say- Troll.
~Beaux

[East]

You might scream when he puts in in...but you will cry when he takes it out...and the scream again because he won't put it back in...... :biggrin:

Have you ever heard the term "being owned"? You may want to familiarize yourself with the term....

It is important to know thyself...

BTW..how the hell did you get all of those measurements?....

[ceez]

seriously though, just play with some dildos before and use plenty of lube

[TigerLover]

My my thats an oddly specific fantasy.

Well honestly it sounds like something I'd read on literotica.com I hope for your sake it's real but I highly doubt it.