Hey guys

[Fuzzy]

So, I have been in a relationship with someone for about 4 years. In that time we have never really had sex. We get each other off, with all manner of other methods but never sex.
Its something I would like to try and have offered to either bottom or top but he is just against it and when i ask why I don't even think he knows. It did concern me at first IE "are you not attracted to me" but I think thats not the case as i give him an erection pretty instantly what im concerned with is his near unknowing why he is against it. Is this something you have experienced or heard of before? Do we need to see a specialist what would you suggest?

[MickTheMousie]

Some are just not into anal

as an exsample i dont like rye bread, it can make me puke, and i dont know why :/ sometimes people do stuff for no reason or sometimes people dont like something for no reason

[Anocxu]

No specialist needed..
Ask HIM..
Some guys are just not into penetration. .
Sometimes you can get your partner to compromise sexualy. . Sometimes it's impossible. .

The answers you seek should come from your partner.

[AlfredM]

Some guys are into anal,some don't. Some strongly feel against it, which I think is a miss out since you don't know what you like till you try it. And with anal, it could take few times, especially since you're both new to it. Talk to him why you're so eager to try it out. Maybe even mention about its perk, like multiple orgasm from prostate massaging ~