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Help!!!!!
#11
I probably shouldn't say this...but it is the truth so I am gonna say it.

There is a certain type of guy I cannot cum with,...not for the life of me. Really milky skin blondes who are hairless and it looks like milk and honey will come out of them if you prick them with a pin.....

It came to a bad conclusion one day when this guy I had fucked for probably 4+ hours straight...upside down..on the stairs...over the stool..in every position you can think of....and not one moment did I ever feel like I could cum.

The bad conclusion..I was honest with him but HE thought since we fucked so long it was understood we were a perfect match. I was shocked because in my mind...it was the opposite...he got mad at me and when I was behind the bar he threw an ashtray at me....YIKES....

So...I stopped having sex with milky blondes (dirty blondes are OK though LOL)...and I don't have that problem with anyone else.....

Years later..it occurred to me that I might have that problem because one of the guys who raped me when I was a teenager....him and his friend....milky blondes.....and I had a crush on him before he raped me so I might have a mental block.....

...which might be the key for you..a mental block. So..here is the thing..try a different guy or guys...might be that something else turns you on even...maybe you like a different kind of sex but haven't realized it yet. Different guys can bring out different things....

I never had a problem with any other guy or any race...EXCEPT.......the same thing happened anytime I had a crush on anyone....the sex sucked....

I also figured out the "crush" thing..but that is another topic
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#12
East Wrote:I probably shouldn't say this...but it is the truth so I am gonna say it.

How East, thank you for sharing all that!

When I have trouble cumming it is normally always because I've been looking at porn and masturbating too much. It prevents me from enjoying the moment because the pleasure centers of my brain have become too used to the stimulation caused by porn so the real thing ends up suffering.

Just my own experience and maybe something to which you can relate.
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#13
AlohaShannon Wrote:How East, thank you for sharing all that!

When I have trouble cumming it is normally always because I've been looking at porn and masturbating too much. It prevents me from enjoying the moment because the pleasure centers of my brain have become too used to the stimulation caused by porn so the real thing ends up suffering.

Just my own experience and maybe something to which you can relate.

I have heard that a lot Shannon...probably might solve the problem.....

Most porn bores me...when I do it....I usually masturbate about stuff I have done..and the people I have done it with....

I have quite a "library" to choose from :biggrin:
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