fjp999 Wrote:...*and if you disagree with me then come on - BRING IT ON
I had an experience yesterday I've been looking forward to for years. I was stopped in the street by a pair of Mormon missionaries. They were polite, friendly and would have been very attractive had I not known what they were about. They asked me the usual questions (had I heard of their church? Did I believe in god? Did I want to know more? etc). They told me that god loves me and has a plan for all of us. They told me that I could live forever with my loved ones and family. Then they said they didn't really have time to talk at length there and then (they had a dinner to get to), but could they call round and see me? At that point I said that if the message was this exciting I'd love my boyfriend to hear it too. To their credit they didn't bat an eyelid between them and told me that would be fine. They were currently teaching another "homosexual couple" too although the plan to live forever with families was primarily aimed at men and women because that's how children are born ...
Then one, the American, said, "Excuse me, but did you just stand here talking to us for fifteen minutes so you could raise that?" The Canadian was pleased to point out that he had taken a musical theatre course at college and knew lots of homosexual men. Many of them were fine people ... I was wondering how long they would keep lying to the gay couple they were teaching and how they would approach telling them they had to give each other up if they wanted to enjoy the blessings of the true gospel of Christ.
The discussion which briefly touched on lots of topics was not what I had been anticipating at all. Trying to make, or getting them to make, a point was like wading through jelly. I do not think very quickly on my feet, which is why I prefer the written word as a means of exploring ideas. Of course, afterwards I could think of all sorts of points of doctrine I could and maybe should have raised, but which totally eluded me at the time. All in all the experience I had been looking forward to for years was a huge disappointment and I felt quite dirty; not because I am a gay man in a strong, secure and loving relationship, but for some deeper and darker reason I cannot articulate.
Mormons are fond of aphorisms. They quote the Jesuit motto, "Give me the child until he is seven and I will show you the man" which they paraphrase as something like, "teach your children correct principles when they are young and when they are old they will not depart from them". Damn these sects and their brainwashing tactics to hell. They are still in my head, even when I think I've cleaned them out :mad: I shan't be looking for a further discussion with them.