Lonewolf123

[Lonewolf123]

Hi guys

I really need sum advice.... I'm a 28 year old man who is married to a wonderful woman. I love her but not in love with her anymore. I have always been attracted to men and now I have a boyfriend as well who is in the exact same position. I love him so much and want to spend rest of my life wiv him. He has the the same feelins as me. But as u can image this is a extremely sensitive situation and wats the best way to proceed.....? Please help me

[VirgoMasquerade]

Oh wow, Well you shall be able to talk it out with us here if you need it. Welcome

[matty7]

its a very hard situation for you both and its gonna get even harder im sure - Does your wife have any idea your gay ? this kind of thread has been posted many times here on GS so your not alone mate , I can give my opinion so don't hate me for it as im trying to give advice as I see it - The longer you take to come out with the truth then I guess the harder its gonna be = especially if you go on to have children - If you think that you can live your life as a straight man and be the husband to your wife then fine but im guessing having a bf on the side means you wish to end the marriage which means hurting your wife I can see you don't want to do - the words cruel to be kind comes to mind firstly ....for a woman its gonna be a great betrayal but you cant change the facts - she needs to know before she finds out through other means - love to say this is gonna be a bed of roses but you have some difficult decisions to make buddy - jeep chatting on here and wait for the wise men to post their advice

all the best Matty