Leo
06-16-2016, 08:24 PM
[MENTION=20933]LJay[/MENTION] I do have a sister, she lives on the coast...by the beach lol
I think I have just gotten used to living here and not one to like all the commotion of larger cities, I mean to an extent.
Most of my problems I think are all anxiety related...worries about job, rent and everything else under the sun and just never made the jump and in hindsight the few opportunities I could have probably would have been a very bumpy start. Had some "promises" made that fell through long before I ever arranged, I have to know I have a job to go to when I get there. Not this verbal, "Oh yeah sure thing" bullshit. Tells me a lot about how the employer feels about their employees when they practice this sort of stuff.
Anyway, saving money. Well debt will have to come first and it is going to be a slow slow boat getting there. I think refinancing may be in order if I don't take in a bunch of fees to do it...never done it but I know nothing is free so I'm sure they tack on a charge to take possession of the loan, it only "looks" cheaper but you're spending even more money in the end.
Yeah the car is cool but the other aspect is, that car is more likely to get me in trouble... I drive fast enough as it is and have a very heavy foot. So the prius having 99 HP is more appropriate. Now I just wished I had waited to get a prius because they're a good bit cheaper right now. I had the Prius C which was smaller, having the larger counterpart would have been nice and at the lower price, makes things much more manageable financially.
I know that buying another car to "save" money is like fucking for virginity but I think getting out from under this current car loan and simply having lower payments is going to make it easier to pay down the other debts and so on...At least that's the theory anyway. Not sure what would be the best way to go about things.
I think I have just gotten used to living here and not one to like all the commotion of larger cities, I mean to an extent.
Most of my problems I think are all anxiety related...worries about job, rent and everything else under the sun and just never made the jump and in hindsight the few opportunities I could have probably would have been a very bumpy start. Had some "promises" made that fell through long before I ever arranged, I have to know I have a job to go to when I get there. Not this verbal, "Oh yeah sure thing" bullshit. Tells me a lot about how the employer feels about their employees when they practice this sort of stuff.
Anyway, saving money. Well debt will have to come first and it is going to be a slow slow boat getting there. I think refinancing may be in order if I don't take in a bunch of fees to do it...never done it but I know nothing is free so I'm sure they tack on a charge to take possession of the loan, it only "looks" cheaper but you're spending even more money in the end.
Yeah the car is cool but the other aspect is, that car is more likely to get me in trouble... I drive fast enough as it is and have a very heavy foot. So the prius having 99 HP is more appropriate. Now I just wished I had waited to get a prius because they're a good bit cheaper right now. I had the Prius C which was smaller, having the larger counterpart would have been nice and at the lower price, makes things much more manageable financially.
I know that buying another car to "save" money is like fucking for virginity but I think getting out from under this current car loan and simply having lower payments is going to make it easier to pay down the other debts and so on...At least that's the theory anyway. Not sure what would be the best way to go about things.
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