So i asked one guy I've been hanging out with we've known each other for 2 months. And yesterday i asked him if he likes me ansd he said "i care about you but i am not sure if i like you more than a friend" so it means he just likes me as a friend, right? So i don't need to expect much from him
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yes he does .. "care" is the highlight for you here, take that clue that he values you as a friend .. and if you don't want to lose him, nurture that bond he just established with you ..
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Thing is we've cuddled a few times and he kissed me when he was drunk i guess it really means nothing though. So the last time we cuddled we went to a bit further than cuddling but not a sex we didn't kiss just touching and after that he said it is complicated and that's why i asked him if he likes me but since he isn't sure about me i will try not to bother
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I would stop the cuddling, kissing, and anything further if you want to stay friends.
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I wouldn't get too hung up on him then, I mean it sounds like you're wanting something more from him and that doesn't seem to be the case... If you want to stay friends, stay friends but don't dwell on wanting more it will only cause you much unneeded grief.
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Exactly. I mean he obviously values you as a friend, but doesn't want anything more. Value him as a friend and don't get physical with him. You can hug but draw the line there.
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I think the thing is that his friend seems to get physical with him...the other way around, so this guy who has a bf apparently has little inhibitions on messing around on his bf...might want to be cautious with him. OTOH, one can end up having sex quite easily, starts with cuddling and both parties may not have any intent on doing so.
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