Do you think this guy deserves another opportunity?
09-02-2016, 10:52 PM
met this guy on a dating app (Badoo), and after 3 months of chatting through Whatsapp we decided to meet up.
We went to a park , the first impression I got was that he's a little childish, he says one thing and then after 5 minutes says it was a joke. It is very annoying to me, I like to have fun but not all the time. (there is no reason to lie about your hobbies passions).
He told me about him: he is 26, likes cats, reading , anime, yoga, dislikes alcohol, parties, going out at night and crowded places. (I'm 29, love dogs, going out to dance and have a couple of beers, listening to music, going to the beach).
Before that date, we saw each other but very briefly, it was raining a lot I was waiting for a taxi in front of the building where he works, and got to see him walking down the street , so I raised my hand and screamed: heyyyy, so he looked at me and said hello, I asked if he was late and he said yes. That was all.
Later ,on the park, the told me, that rainy day he saw me but he had no intention to say hello, cause he was so nervous and tried to avoid me, until I saw him...
After that, we keep chatting on Whatsapp and Snapchat, one night I sent him a shirtless snap, I had just arrived home from work, I was tired, looking for something to eat in the kitchen, so I recorded a snap video , just telling him how tired and hungry I was.
He replied my messages with cat memes, and sending me goodnight kisses on the cheeks....
On another date, I mentioned that snap and he said that I have to respect for my body. He said people how take shirtless pics and snaps do not respect themselves. I asked for further details but he refused.
I said, sorry then, but he replied. "you don't have to, we have nothing ".
At that point I was annoyed, he noticed how bored I was, so I decided to go back home.
He told me before you go I have something for you, so he took me to the bathroom and kissed me, I got hard and made him to grab my boner, he looked surprised and said his cock is big. That was all that night.
I told this story to my friend and he said this guy's playing the innocent card. My friend finds the kisses on the cheek so childish, like we are 11 years old.
He never sends a shirtless pic (because he respect his body) but on the other hand he has no problem with kissing my in a public bathroom with the door open....
I confronted him on Whatsapp and he said that he really likes me, he just don't want me to think that he's sexual like the others.
I told him: just be you, I like sex, I am not a promiscuous man but I have a cock that gets hard, I like to feel desired, I like my man to be sexual, but only with me. Obviously.
I haven't talked to him after that, however, he is a nice guy, he was the first one to send me a Happy Birthday message, and even talked to his mom about me. I just don't get his attitude towards sex.
Now, I've just seen him on Grindr looking for something serious, "no sexual perverts" says his profile.
Sorry for the long story, I think all the details were necessary for you to understand.
We went to a park , the first impression I got was that he's a little childish, he says one thing and then after 5 minutes says it was a joke. It is very annoying to me, I like to have fun but not all the time. (there is no reason to lie about your hobbies passions).
He told me about him: he is 26, likes cats, reading , anime, yoga, dislikes alcohol, parties, going out at night and crowded places. (I'm 29, love dogs, going out to dance and have a couple of beers, listening to music, going to the beach).
Before that date, we saw each other but very briefly, it was raining a lot I was waiting for a taxi in front of the building where he works, and got to see him walking down the street , so I raised my hand and screamed: heyyyy, so he looked at me and said hello, I asked if he was late and he said yes. That was all.
Later ,on the park, the told me, that rainy day he saw me but he had no intention to say hello, cause he was so nervous and tried to avoid me, until I saw him...
After that, we keep chatting on Whatsapp and Snapchat, one night I sent him a shirtless snap, I had just arrived home from work, I was tired, looking for something to eat in the kitchen, so I recorded a snap video , just telling him how tired and hungry I was.
He replied my messages with cat memes, and sending me goodnight kisses on the cheeks....
On another date, I mentioned that snap and he said that I have to respect for my body. He said people how take shirtless pics and snaps do not respect themselves. I asked for further details but he refused.
I said, sorry then, but he replied. "you don't have to, we have nothing ".
At that point I was annoyed, he noticed how bored I was, so I decided to go back home.
He told me before you go I have something for you, so he took me to the bathroom and kissed me, I got hard and made him to grab my boner, he looked surprised and said his cock is big. That was all that night.
I told this story to my friend and he said this guy's playing the innocent card. My friend finds the kisses on the cheek so childish, like we are 11 years old.
He never sends a shirtless pic (because he respect his body) but on the other hand he has no problem with kissing my in a public bathroom with the door open....
I confronted him on Whatsapp and he said that he really likes me, he just don't want me to think that he's sexual like the others.
I told him: just be you, I like sex, I am not a promiscuous man but I have a cock that gets hard, I like to feel desired, I like my man to be sexual, but only with me. Obviously.
I haven't talked to him after that, however, he is a nice guy, he was the first one to send me a Happy Birthday message, and even talked to his mom about me. I just don't get his attitude towards sex.
Now, I've just seen him on Grindr looking for something serious, "no sexual perverts" says his profile.
Sorry for the long story, I think all the details were necessary for you to understand.
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