Why the hell did I message my ex

[artyboy]

For fuck sake why did I message my ex on the dating site I'm on. I haven't spoken to them in three years. I noticed on the dating app I'm using they looked at my profile so I said them a message say how's things going? So wish I didn't know. Do I still have feelings for them I don't know. Hopefully they won't message me back. Unlikely though isn't it...

[Dan1980]

Hopefully they won't reply, do you want to dredge up the past again though.

[artyboy]

Hmmm bloody ex's always come out of the wood work when you least expect them.

[TigerLover]

Maybe you just wanted to chat about the good times a little. After all just because he's your ex doesn't mean you can't talk to each other. Maybe take a little stroll down memory lane.

[artyboy]

Hopefully they won't reply, do you want to dredge up the past again though.

I got to remember they said they couldn't see a future with me as they didn't want to be my carer etc.

[Insertnamehere]

^ That right there

[Cridders88]

Well, I was just about to say it does depend on how it ended, but after your last post, I can see why you are regretting messaging him...

[artyboy]

We ended as friends, but I only really talked to them a few times after we broke up. Hmmm I guess the guy they went out with just a few weeks after has got bored lol.

[InbetweenDreams]

Exes are to remain exes. I am friends with one of my exes, actually my first boyfriend. The rest....yeah I have a similar stance to that of Ron Swanson...




Realistically no, I'm not going to waste my last breath on people I don't like...

[Ammon]

I'm also the type to think "ex's should remain ex's"

It also makes me wanna fight for my current relationship because I know myself, once it's done I don't even wanna "stay friends" or else it's just going to complicate things.