What do gay guys want?

[TigerLover]

Cake. Mostly gay guys just want cake. You should learn to bake cakes.

Otherwise keep socialising and try to enjoy your life solo. Because it's important to keep your spirits up so you don't become a desperate Dave.
The right guy for you is out there somewhere and someday you'll be snuggling up to him trying to remember what loneliness feels like.

Also if you can find a colone that smells like cake that'd really help.

[Gemini]

Cake. Mostly gay guys just want cake. You should learn to bake cakes.

Otherwise keep socialising and try to enjoy your life solo. Because it's important to keep your spirits up so you don't become a desperate Dave.
The right guy for you is out there somewhere and someday you'll be snuggling up to him trying to remember what loneliness feels like.

Also if you can find a colone that smells like cake that'd really help.

Cake? No. It's pie, gay guys want pie, EVERYONE wants pie - I heard that on a Seinfeld rerun, so it must be true.

[deephiance]

Not true. ...

it's not false either.

Like the old saying goes, opinions are like arseholes....everyone has one, and everyone elses stinks.

Sorry for crashing this, but I do get rather annoyed when people disrespect others opinions by trying to negate them because their opinions are different.

You have a different opinion, state it, move on without invalidating someone elses opinion

[meridannight]

it's not false either.

It's a matter of perception and psychology.

Sorry for crashing this, but I do get rather annoyed when people disrespect others opinions by trying to negate them because their opinions are different.

You have a different opinion, state it, move on without invalidating someone elses opinion

That's what I did. What are you doing elevating an off-hand comment to a matter of importance?


I didn't disrespect anybody's opinion. All my posts are statements of what I think. That's the inherent quality of posts on the internet.

[deephiance]

It's a matter of perception and psychology.

There you go, you just taught yourself a lesson.

I didn't disrespect anybody's opinion. All my posts are statements of what I think. That's the inherent quality of posts on the internet.

That is what you actually did do by invalidating a persons opinion with your own opinion disguised as a fact.

[Camfer]

Hello, [MENTION=24086]MysticStar[/MENTION], and to GaySpeak. Contrary to what one might think, this is actually a British site, but we have a lot of Americans on here too.

It's true, we have [MENTION=23097]Insertnamehere[/MENTION] from Chile, [MENTION=23908]Shawn[/MENTION] from Panama, and [MENTION=15656]Sylph[/MENTION] in Bermuda. Oh and a few guys from the USA too!

[Shawn]

It's not about what gay guys want, it's about what people wants, because the majority of them doesn't really knows

[meridannight]

There you go, you just taught yourself a lesson.

I didn't teach myself anything I didn't already know.

Stop being so condescending. What exactly is your problem?

That is what you actually did do by invalidating a persons opinion with your own opinion disguised as a fact.

No, I didn't. Just because you say so doesn't make it a fact.

I stated my experience, which is a fact. If their experience is different they know it themselves. Certainly no internet post by some anonymous person is going to invalidate another's real life experience. It's ridiculous to even propose something like that.

So you're picking the fight with me for what exactly?

[deephiance]

I'm sorry you feel that way, but I am not even remotely trying to picking a fight...I am merely pointing out that when someone offers their opinion and your reply is 'That's not true', you are invalidating their opinion and I find that rather rude.

Offer your opinion if if differs, put forward your experience....but never ever invalidate someone elses opinion because your opinion is different.

That is the one and only point I have being trying to make.

[meridannight]

I'm sorry you feel that way, but I am not even remotely trying to picking a fight...I am merely pointing out that when someone offers their opinion and your reply is 'That's not true', you are invalidating their opinion and I find that rather rude.

Then get off my back. What the hell do you want me to do here? I say I wasn't disrespecting [MENTION=23954]Gemini[/MENTION]. He replied to my 'not true' post and said that it was true in his case --- did I fucking go after him after that? I left it, because that's apparently the way he sees things, so be it.

You are dragging this out to make it a stand against me personally, which is just as fucking rude as you propose I was being. More so, since I already explained it to you that I wasn't being disrespectful, but you keep disregarding that as if it meant nothing and then rigidly insisting on your preconceptions. If you take the high ground to urge others not invalidate other people's opinion, follow your own advice for a change.

Offer your opinion if if differs, put forward your experience....but never ever invalidate someone elses opinion because your opinion is different.

That is the one and only point I have being trying to make.

That is exactly what I did. I said 'not true' and it was a reflection of my experience. And I stand by it.

It is a common sense logic that text written on the internet by anonymous persons is not a substitute for objective truth in real life. Everybody should know this by default, and ergo, anonymous people's opinions on the internet aren't anything to worry about, and they definitely do not overthrow or invalidate real life personal experience. This is a given knowledge. There is additionally a grand difference between opinion and fact, but I'm not in the mood to argue any further.

Also, this is a free world. And people can do whatever they want. You worry about your own actions and don't try to control others.