Prostate massage

[Ibex]

So.... I tried rubbing my prostate from the outside. It's possible to get a good feeling from that too. But imo it's hard to hit the spot.
I managed to hit the spot a few times, and it did feel like I could cum from it actually. But the sensation went away every time, eventually I went flaccid.
To get the best results from a prostate massage, you should have a boner. Makes the prostate slightly bigger I think, or more sensetive.

Bad thing with rubbing it from the outside is that it hurts. Now I'm so sore on the part between anus and balls

I found out that it was easiest to do this while in my chair, legs up on something, spreading them.
Then just go to town rubbing your fingers along that part between the anus and balls. I think you have to press hard, correct?

You guys who have tried non vibrating prostate toys, how do you do it?
I've seen a video on it on Youporn and the woman said you have to thrust your hip back and forth. Or maybe I saw it in a video for a prostate toy. Or maybe the vid on Youporn was using that toy, yeah this was it XD

[princealbertofb]

Are you sure it's your prostate you were massaging from the outside? I think it was probably something else, like the inside part of the penis shaft. The prostate is well inside. When I first read your post, I thought, ok from the lower side of the abdomen, just above the penis... but no, you mention the perineum. I don't think you can massage the prostate from the perineum... But you could massage the rest of your penis and probably stimulate your testicles area as well, but as you said, you can make the skin a bit sore. You could remember to use some lube when you're trying that.

[Ibex]

[MENTION=1766]princealbertofb[/MENTION] you're probably right. But it is possible to hit the p-spot from the outside, thus why those toys have that extra part that goes against that area when you stick them inside you.
The prostate isn't that far inside you, so I doubt you have to press very hard to get to it. It's not exactly the size of a pea, though it shouldn't be too big either

[LJay]

Does this mean that your Aneros has not yet arrived?

As for the soreness, a gentle approach is always best for a beginning. No need to overachieve here. Experimentation does not need to be brutal.

How are you with using a dildo?

Do you have a friend who can help with these things? Any btoad-minded sauna buddies?

[princealbertofb]

You're right [MENTION=24036]Ibex[/MENTION], the prostate isn't that small, I come into regular acquaintance with one from the inside, so I know how it feels, and I know how it hardens when my partner is about to come. It's an interesting feeling and process. I also know how far inside it is (about 2 1/2 to 3 inches inside), and I can understand why it would be difficult to massage it from the outside. If you can actually reach inside yourself, you'd see where it lies, but you have to be quite agile to be able to reach that far inside and feel it doing its work.

[LJay]

[MENTION=1766]princealbertofb[/MENTION] you're probably right. But it is possible to hit the p-spot from the outside, thus why those toys have that extra part that goes against that area when you stick them inside you.
The prostate isn't that far inside you, so I doubt you have to press very hard to get to it. It's not exactly the size of a pea, though it shouldn't be too big either

Are you sure you are not referring to clitoral massagers?

[Ibex]

Are you sure you are not referring to clitoral massagers?

Yeah 100% sure

They say that front part I've marked is supposed to hit the p-spot from the outside, though I'm guessing you have to press on it to feel it.
That toy is the one I had the best session with btw. Was the time I started moaning.

[princealbertofb]

The prostate, if rocking, would feel pressed from both sides. Yes that outside part is part of the deal, but on its own, it might not work so well.

[LJay]

Glad to ear that the motion of the ocean is still important.

[Ibex]

I highly recommend not doing what I did. Use lube if you're going to try.
I've been so swollen and sore between there today