Should you take closeted gays seriously?

[kindy64]

Also, coming out is a process, not a one time thing. Not only that, but why does everyone need to know? The person who rings up my groceries has no need to know about my sexuality. But a girl who lets me know she is interested does.

Yep, there's a difference between being closeted, out, 100% out, and flaunting your sexuality for everyone to see...

Normally, doesn't come up, so no big deal. But I'll throw things in every now and then depending on the situation. Went through the drive-thru yesterday and the girl taking the money had a musical note tattooed under her ear. Told her I liked it, and that my boyfriend had a similar tattoo.

Of course, even that isn't my sexuality, as I'm bisexual. So, what's the proper public "stance" so to speak for that?