Help please

[kindy64]

There is a reason i don't want it to change and I'm having thoughts in my head

You should really discuss that here then...

What thoughts in your head? That you find a particular female attractive? So, do you want to have sex with her, have a romantic relationship with her? Not because that's what society/parents are pushing me towards, but because that's what you feel in your heart.

What reasons do you have to not want it to change?

Why do you think it's important to put a label or narrow your choices, straight or gay?

I've been bisexual since 11/12 years old, so being in a relationship with a man is a new thing, but being attracted to them is an old thing.

Be attracted to who you are attracted to. Love who you love. The heart wants what it wants.

[seeking]

Yea sorry to say that but I found your worry a bit hilarious. (no offense)

You are gay but you worry that you will become not gay ...? So you love being gay and somehow being not-gay is a problem to you? This is rather confusing and funny at the same time.

Would love to hear you elaborate on it.

[Zen]

Unless that reason is your parents are scientists working on a top secret genetics project and they want to test an engineered virus on you that will turn you straight, I don't think you need to worry. Even if that were true, I just borrowed that scenario from the third X-Men film and in the end it didn't work anyway, Magneto got his powers back and the reviews weren't very good.

Spoiler alert!

[Zen]

one part of me is saying be nice - so.....I don't think you have anything to worry about really, you can't control who you are attracted to and sometimes gender is not the overwhelming power for attraction.

The other part of me is saying be normal....harden the fuck up, you are queer, love cock and I would love to have your life if you biggest worry and fear is 'I'm might not be gay'

oooppppps...i did it again.

You certainly did! Haha!

[Themaster154]

I don't find women attractive i have no edge to sleep with them they don't make me feel the same way as men do and i love being attracted to me I like dick the thoughts I'm having are when I'm wanking images will pop into my head i just think if i am to be bisexual then I'm going to lose interest in guys and i think back to when i was 13 and liking guys it felt right to me it felt like this is who I am but now with all these thoughts i feel like I'm losing myself

[kindy64]

What you find appealing in porn/fantasy has no bearing on your sexuality...

There are straight men and women who find watching gay porn appealing who would never consider doing those acts in real life.
There are gay men and women who find watching straight porn appealing who would never consider doing those acts in real life.

Some further reading for you:
https://www.briangerald.com/tough-questi...tractions/
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle...d-to-women
https://bodymindsoul.org/articles/gay-se...exibility/
http://psymed.info/kinsey-scale-test
https://www.thegaytherapycenter.com/adam...ly-a-tribe

[kindy64]

Just saw this from a friend on my timeline...

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[Themaster154]

okay but do gay men watch lesbian porn and lesbians watch gay porn
and you say it has no bearing on sexuality so what dose?
like i feel more attrracted to guys and i love cocks and there bodys and there faces
with women i dont see myself sleeping with one yeah they might look nice but i have no desire to be with on but im scared that could change

[kindy64]

What you do, how you feel in real life is the best indication of what your sexuality is.

I really don't think you have anything to worry about. There are people who are into all sorts of porn, cartoon porn being one which obviously has little bearing on sexual identity. It is solely what you find arousing. That is not the same as sexual/emotional/romantic attraction.

https://www.outfrontmagazine.com/lifesty...-gay-porn/
http://emptyclosets.com/forum/sexual-rom...-porn.html
http://www.pride.com/need-know/2014/10/0...ther-types

[Themaster154]

I don't know how i feel right now