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Confusion help me
#21
just tell them you have a brain tumor and have only six months to live. when the flip out tell them "no worries" i am just gay. ( only kidding just be yourself and if you feel the time is right to come out to some one pick a close and trusted friend or family member who will support you. then when you feel better about it then tell the more resistant members of your friends or family. and no matter what anyone says you are still a human beign and you are still special and you are still loved and welcome to the GLBT family
Good Luck
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#22
As has already been said, telling a close m8 thats a girl thats probably one of the best ways to go about it. I told my sister as most of my m8s are str8 lads so I was a lil weary of telling them, she accepted it really well and about a month l8r I told my mam and dad. They were great and my dad was fine as at the end of the day Im not gonna change who I am cause of my sexuality and he all love me no matter what. Confusedmile:


Im sure parents all accept you for who you are and as has already been said theres no rule saying what age you should say it at, I wish I had came out before I did 3 years ago as your kinda living a lie. It was funny on my bitrhdays as my auntie and uncle would always buy me the fhm magazines Laugh, they then bought is the gay times when they found out :tongue:, so much better prezzie there haha.

Just tell someone who you really trust and well if you feel confident enough to tell your parents first then gr8, most are fine with it and accept its just a normal part of life, however it may take ur dad a lil longer to come to terms with it. If thats the case dont worry he all be fine in time, its just harder sometimes for dads to understand, he all still love you no matter what though Confusedmile: .

One word of caution I told one lad who was an old pal from school, he was canny enuf and sound when I told him about me being gay but he did say that had I said it at school I would have had the piss ripped out of is, I dont have any hard feelings about that tho as I know what kids are like, like I say he has grown up and he is sound about it.

Anyways gd luck and im sure you all be fine Confusedmile: , and just say when you feel ready and you usually tell at the times you dont expect to.
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#23
tanks for all the comments guys,im back after a few months and now i told sooo many people even my family who were very supportive,i dont no wot i was so scared bout,its the best thing iv evr done,i was so happy bout it dat i screamed it at randomers once hahaha wich made dem happy apparently lol
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#24
Thats such a hard thing to ask.
Theres no way anybody could answer for you, simply because we dont know enough about you!
We dont know if you are surrounded by kind, loving freinds and family, or if you are surrounded by the sort of people that would judge you.

I mean, I could never tell anybody when I was younger, simply because my dad was in the Commandos, and always said 'queers' should be battered.. and I knew/know he meant it... thank god my mum kicked him out when I was 17!

Maybe instead of worrying about your sexuallity, maybe you should enjoy growing up, and not trying to lable yourself so early in life, after all, teen years should the best of your life, have fun, be happy, and just be true to yourself, and Im sure it will all work out fine :biggrin:
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#25
lol
didnt see your update!!

good for you, glad your happy mate
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