That sounds like a plan in the making.
Good luck!!
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It was really hard at the beginning but I'm in a better place now. Coming out and being a gay guy is an Islamic country is always tough because you fear for your safety. While my future as a gay man in this country is uncertain, I'm still happy for coming out. I have given a little peace to myself.
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04-07-2021, 02:26 AM
(Edited 04-08-2021, 05:17 AM by CaptainAwesome.)
I always knew that I was gay but when it started sinking in during my teenage years, it took me some time to come to terms with it. From then to now, it has been a relatively smooth sailing. Everyone that I have told has been very accepting for which I'm grateful.
I am not fully out, though. My close circle of friends know but my parents do not and it will likely remain that way for the foreseeable future because:
1) My parents are religious so the odds of me changing their views are little to none.
2) My life is barely hampered by them not knowing. I live on my own for most part because of university (barring lockdown in 2020) so I've been able to have a solid relationship with my boyfriend.
I guess I get to have my cake and eat it too (for now at least).
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Keeping it a secret was the hard part. I know deep down my dad and mom has always known but as to this day are in denial to my knowledge....but the rest of the world I am sure has debated my sexuality. Back in those days I was very rigid on myself fighting this so called demon tooth and nail and even got married twice to women and that only destroyed lives including mine. I am very sick of living a lie, when I do find a significant other im sure they will know something is up with me....lol....i dont care at this point. I should NOT have to be vocal....its very apparent!!
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09-12-2021, 11:52 PM
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I didn't plan on coming out to anyone.
But since my previous relationship was with a trans female it xame out.
First told my mother. Then she went behind my back and told one of my brothers.
All if hus friends figured it out fast. And they thought it was pretty cool that I could be together with a trans girl.
Soon my other Brother found out, because he picked me and my gf up at the airport
He figured it out because jeg voice was still too manly.
The first Brother feels a bit of shame that I'm like this.
But I don't care. But he accepts it.Â
Other Brother and mother doesn't mind.
But since I'm 36 years old, I don't care what negative things people think of me.
Me and the trans is not together anymore.