Maybe he is his current partner? Then they'll have been together for a while... lol.
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Are you talking about the right hand ?
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I remember the first time I drank I got so wasted that I went home with a complete stranger. Happened to be the waiter from the resturant I don't remember eating at. From then on I refuse to drink, mostly because I can't stand not being in control of my actions and aware of situations around me. So the no alcohol portion of your relationship might actually help it, no drunken accidents to explain.
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