Is It Possible To Be Gay

[Esruc]

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[marshlander]

I understand that you can feel the way you do. There is a huge machine at work to make us think that what we do to share affection and love is dirty. It has been operating all our lives and has left an indelible imprint.

Don't be too hard on yourself. When you find someone really special you may well want to offer yourself in ways that don't seem possible to you now. The three kinds of acts you mentioned are also not the exclusive prerogative of gay people. Straights do all those things too, but it never gets mentioned and they don't get the brickbats that come our way.

[Mr. Not So Lonely]

to answer your question for the first time on here i see
SEX is not all there is to being gay
It is about connecting to another human being
I can only speak for myself of course but i can not connect the way I do with a woman as i do with a man it is much more satifying with a man and it is nit JUST SEX it is holding a man in my arms and giving myself to him and him to me. emotions are NOT SEX , LOVE IS NOT SEX, SEX IS NOT LOVE.
do not get me wrong sex is a part of love and when you feel love you will not be so discusted by the act

[marshlander]

... And the main question for this thread remains. Can you be gay if you are not turned on by gay sex?

I guess it is possible, even if probably quite rare. For me being gay is about having the capacity to love and be loved by another man. Often that love finds physical expression, but I imagine there are others for whom the physical is less important.

[Genersis]

I guess it is possible, even if probably quite rare. For me being gay is about having the capacity to love and be loved by another man. Often that love finds physical expression, but I imagine there are others for whom the physical is less important.

Seconded.mile:

[LoneSomeDove2182]

f*cking has nothing to do with being gay in my opinion! I am 28 and a virgin in every sense of the word! besides work I have never in my adult life seen another man naked, well there's porn! anyway because i am not a slut and have morals that prevent me from sex till marriage (or the closest thing to it) doesn't make me less gay!!! I am gay because god made me that way! i could have sex with girls all day long... hold on just think i vomitted a little... anyway but i would still be gay because it is in your mind and heart and not in your pants!!! hope this helped you : ) be blessed XOXOXO

[eastofeden]

And the main question for this thread remains. Can you be gay if you are not turned on by gay sex?

As you mentioned you had the same thoughts with women....maybe it is sex in general that you don't like...May I ask if your conclusions come from past sexual experience or is this something you have always felt/thought without the experience?

Are you emotionally atracted to men?

[TimmyThink]

Hey man if in your hart and mind you if think your gay no one can argue the matter but you might have trouble proving it ya what I’m sayin .

Question: What about second base, could you go to 2nd.

[TimmyThink]

[QUOTE=I don't really understand the bases in relationships. What is 2nd base?[/QUOTE]

2nd Base- Full on making out, groping and heavy dry humping..well that’s my second base.

[TimmyThink]

[QUOTE=I don't really understand the bases in relationships. What is 2nd base?[/QUOTE]

2nd Base- Cloths on, full on making out, groping and heavy dry humping..well that’s my second base.