is he gay/bi?

[ribena]

I originally posted a thread, I wanted to add to it but it's closed? Please read it first by clicking through to it on my profile as it's the only thread I've posted other than this one!


Anyway to add, nothing has changed, still the same... but a few friends (including him) and I went travelling for a few days, which meant we stayed in a hotel. We shared rooms (single beds) and as normal, after showering, we walked around in only our underwear. (Only him and I in the room). One night though, he walks out the shower, and clearly has an erection? Surely one would stay in the bathroom until it's gone? Or is this normal? If he really is straight, and he has an idea I'm at least bi, wouldn't he wanna hide it and then come out of the bathroom?

oh and by the way, yes I did catch him looking at my area when I was walking around almost nude, but then again, that's normal i guess...

[simon]

if it's been going on for as long as years then the chances are he is just a flirt,I had a friend just like that,he had a girlfriend,we would look each other in the eyes for those few seconds too long,he would rub up against me,ask if I'd missed him when he had been away for a day or two,one day in his house he walks out in his boxes with it all hanging out and asks me to check if he was doing his stretches corretly,then starts bending touching his toes etc its funny thinking back on it,the list goes on and on,the bottom line tho is some guys know you are gay and just love the attention and flirting,walking out of the shower with a semi on would have been a clear sign but he made just enough of a sign for you to know not to act on it,he knows what he is doing,next time he does that go up to him and slap it and say is that for me,I bet he runs a mile.

[Pseudo Rob]

He sounds like a straight guy who wants attention. But, really, its only you who can judge in the end. He could be bi or whatever but, from what you've said, it doesnt seem likely.