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How many times have you came out?
#1
In my case, I've came out about three times, the first time was really good.

But I just keep going though fazes of being totally straight and then other time being totally gay.

I can't seem to be happy with who I am.

Maybe finding a parter would be good but then again....
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#2
Because I was a bit late to realize and accept myself, my telling people happened after college when friends had spread out to different tones so I had multiple incidents of telling someone rather than just one big 'outing'. There are at least six I remember fairly well and a few other non-memorable ones, most of which were all positive and all at least more positive than not.
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#3
I keep coming out to people when I'm drunk and then the next day I tell people 'oh I was only saying that because I'm pissed'.

You I lost friends over it some times.
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#4
I've had three real coming outs. The first to my mother, the second to my father, and the third to my best friend. Each of them was a positive experience, although my friend is the only one who will bring up the topic every now and then. My mother told my the rest of my family, and as far as I know they are ok with it, despite that no one has yet to say anything about it.

I had one other minor coming out to a old highschool classmate on facebook, it was like 3 in the morning and I was awake early for work, and she was chatting with me, and asked me why I didn't have a girlfriend... well I think its self-explainatory where that went xD

I have put my Interested In on FB to Men, but I have no idea if anyone has even noticed... oh well.
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#5
About seven times...

My first two and last five had a major gap between them because I still didn't really accept it for myself. It was only in my final year of high school that I accepted it and started coming out to people.

Does telling someone you're gay when you first meet them considered coming out?
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#6
I think so.

But I maybe wrong in thnking its when you have totally accept it for myself and told people then maybe???

:confused:
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#7
XRIMO Wrote:I have put my Interested In on FB to Men, but I have no idea if anyone has even noticed... oh well.

But you do get more interesting ads. Wink
Fred

Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
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#8
fredv3b Wrote:But you do get more interesting ads. Wink

Wait, you do?
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