Cheated on

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Okay, first off, I have a few points of contention with your post.

First, distance relationships are hard, but they won't fail just based on age. My partner is 23 and I'm a year behind him. We've been together almost 1.5 years now. We've both had quite a bit of temptation and have never cheated.

Second, telling him he is younger and has higher value is extremely rude and misleading. For some people, being younger is a valued trait. I admit, when I was single I wasn't looking for anyone more than ten years old than me. However comma pause for effect, younger people are no more valuable than older people. I have a few older gay friends and so does my partner. Calling him higher value because he is younger is perpetuating the highly superficial "scene" way of thinking.

1. He is 16. Be realistic lol
2. So what should you tell someone who is being cheated on? Should I tell him "you suck, the guy is much better than you so he cheated on you"?

Just like straight relationship, gay relationship has the ugly parts. Face it.

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1. He is 16. Be realistic lol
2. So what should you tell someone who is being cheated on? Should I tell him "you suck, the guy is much better than you so he cheated on you"?

Just like straight relationship, gay relationship has the ugly parts. Face it.

1. My point is that you said "distance relationship between 2 young gay guys won't work." Some distance relationships don't work, but some do. So you can't say it as if all distance relationships young gay men have are doomed to fail.

2. No, you should emphasize his worth as a person, not as a piece of meat. I think saying "you're better off without him. Don't let his actions make you think you are not a good, desirable person" is better than saying "don't worry about it, there are plenty of other guys that would have sex with you just because you're young."

I'm well aware that gay relationships have their issues. I'd be the first to admit it.

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Sorry to hear about that. It is understandable you are upset and you should definetely be aware that perhaps things might have to move on. Its up to you how you want to proceed, but be careful like the others say. You need to worry about your feelings in this, not his. He made his choice, now you make yours.