What puts you off girls?

[jbrowder24]

How can anyone ever be put off girls when you've never been on them?

After I came out to my sisters, they asked something similar: "How do you know when you've never been with a girl?". But I knew before I'd been with a guy as well (even if I was in denial for a bit about it). When I thought of boobs vs chests, and compared other private parts, it was easy to tell what appealed to me and what didn't. It took me a while to get to that point because I was raised more conservative and simply didn't think in that way, so I did have "crushes" on girls while younger, they just weren't sexual crushes.

Touching on what sweetlad said about the sister stuff, I do wonder sometimes if having two sisters influenced me. They tried to make me into a gentleman who respected girls and didn't view them in a bad way. The one closer to me, guys often asked, 'Do you know your sister is hot?'. I found myself sometimes feeling uncomfortable about it all. But then, my mom has two gay brothers - strong genetic evidence as well, and very likely I'm gay by birth. How I was raised, I supressed for a while... but I'm confident this is who I am and that it's not something I can change.

Perhaps it was living in a rural area where I haven't met a lot of gay friends, or perhaps it was again the influence of sisters, but I do usually feel more comfortable around girls. The majority of my best friends are girls, and I enjoy being 'one'of them to an extent (not that I'm girly, but I can appreciate Sex & the City and a strawberry daiquiri ). Of course now they're all having babies so the dynamic is shifting a bit, but all my sisters' kids are girls so far so I'll be around girls for years to come I'm sure

[CardShark]

three simple letters PMS

[Genersis]

Nothing puts me off of females.
I'm just not attracted to them...at all.:redface:

[colinmackay]

Joining the conversation a little late but...

Why aren't straight men attracted to other men?

I'm just not attracted to women sexually or romantically. I'm just not that way inclined. I can tell you what features are attractive but I think that's mostly because the media is telling me all the time.





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[Miles]

Why aren't straight men attracted to other men?

^^^This. It pretty much sums up why I think it's such a weird thing to ask someone who is gay what turns them off about the opposite sex, when you wouldn't think to ask a straight person what turns them off about the same sex.

Of course not being more inclined one way or the other I can't really answer the question either way you ask it.

[jeffrey]

Couldn't agree more, Jeffrey. Are you in a relationship now?

No. I'm just starting to look again. Haven't been in a relationship in a long time. I tend to be a bit cautious. Maybe too cautious. I'm monogamous and like a stable and drama free life. I greatly value my job and that factors into the equation as well. A lot of the guys I know are 100% drama. They have guys calling them at work and things like that. I'm very protective of my job. I have seen time and time again how drama affects one's career life. Seems like it just finds a way. Drinking and drug use also have this effect. These things cause problems and it can take a long time to get things back on track. When I was younger these things didn't matter, but as I am older now, they do.

[Everhard]

I don't think it's really necessary to justify the way you feel about anything really, as long as you're not hurting anyone. If you're not attracted to women, you just aren't. If you are attracted to women, you just are. Why the need to explain yourself?

*shrugs*

[LiZaRD_PlaNET]

They're not shaped like men.

[fredv3b]

I would like to turn the question around. What is it about men that you find attractive?

I suppose I should answer my own question.

Muscles, broad shoulders, stubble, a guys smile (it is subtly different from a girl's), masculinity, that guys say what they mean (irony and sarcasm excepted), etc.

[geno]

I don't know why, but girls have came many times and asked me on dates (I think this is strange as normally the boy asks the girl on a date), but I was never particularly interested and it was very soon that I started acknowledging the fact that I am gay. The reason why I don't like girls is that all of them seem to be either behaving like bitches, or they are one of those girls that seem to like humiliating boys, and that is never the case with boys...