Hey you like what you like.
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The current Utne Reader has an article called 21st Century Sex (if you'd like to read it for free try googling "utne reader" with "21st century sex" and look for the article by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam--I'd link to it but I'm not sure if that's ok). I found it really interesting and it included that straight men are often found to be drawn to penises (explaining multiple obsessions) and are drawn to view them even more than het women.
And speaking for me personally I'm as drawn to het love stories (which can include erotic elements) as much as gay ones. Ironically, I once tried my hand at writing erotica for the challenge on a board with mostly straight males. The straight males mostly wrote lesbian fics while I, the lesbian, wrote mostly het erotica. As a lover of irony I've always appreciated that. :biggrin: (Btw, they said I was very good at it and even won 2 awards against heavy competition, one lesbian and one heterosexual. That said, I'm not interested in sharing, sorry.)
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You are most likely bisexual. I believe that most people have an element of bisexuality, or curiosity to them, but it's more prevalent in some.
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It's my feeling that str8 men when they watch str8 porn are always comparing themselves to the cocks they see on the video. EVERY man wants to get a feeling on where he lies in the spectrum of cock size - remember for most men, the size of their penis is a reflection on their overall confidence level!
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It sounds to me like Anonymous needs to get out there and have a little field practise with girls, so he'll know whether he's straight or not.
I think some of us, before gay porn was so widely available, have used straight porn to masturbate, and it worked as well. It very much depends on where your interest lies and where your fantasies go. I'd think of assimilating with what the woman was experiencing, probably, in straight porn. It's a long time ago, I don't remember that well. So it really boils down to who you picture yourself being in the porn show. Are you the one penetrating, are you the one being penetrated? It may even hark back to stuff in our psychological development as a child, so it's really complex. I think men are very visual in their stimuli and will respond quite well to the sight of other people having sex., straight or gay.
Accepting that gay porn may stimulate you, even though you identify as straight, also means that you have curiosity for sex and are open minded enough to let you feel comfortable with this somewhat (rather) taboo form of sex. Maybe you're getting off on the idea of the transgression... Have you had sex with anyone already?
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I don't know that question. I am just starting to consider myself maybe interested in Men as I watch a lot of Gay porn and like watching boys get fucked and what not. I have used Dildos but can never get them far, it hurts to even break the barrier. I like the idea of having sex with a guy but that is only while I'm horny. While I am not horny I consider myself straight and guys even disgust me sometimes while I'm not horny, I will look back at what I did and be amazed at myself. It is strange.
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Certainly. Being straight or gay is not about what you look at when you fap. It's about who you actually have sex with. I occasionally get off to straight porn, but couldn't ever actually have sex with a girl.
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Well, in the beginning human belongs to neither sex...so I guess everyone has that "default" readiness to be bisexual.
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