Masculine V. Feminine

[jeffrey]

I couldn't respond to the poll, as I am very satisfied with where I'm at. Personally, I prefer guys that are more feminine than I am. I find that if I'm with a guy that is as masculine as I am that we tend to compete for dominancy in some odd way. I don't care for that. I'm the masculine one. On the other hand, some of the more feminine guys are very dramatic. I find the low-keyed, sweet, feminine types very attractive. Sweetness is number one.

[Soulblade]

If I was more feminine I'd be a girl. I'm soft spoken, small (I'm 4'10 and weight 100 pounds), hairless (not by choice), I shy away from certain things and cry often when I'm sad, even if I'm not THAT sad.

[Almac]

I lean towards my feminine side; however, I don’t act in an effeminate way if that makes any sense?

[Jason74]

I sometimes wish I were a little bit feminine in some ways. I am masculine and have that apperance as well and when I am at gay clubs people think that I am straight no matter what I try to do, not like I really try and be any other way. Yet I think if I were a bit femmy that maybe that would be a sign to people that I am gay and more approachable since I am so shy myself. The funny thing is that I look at myself as a bottom and people still think I am straight, its like what the hell, lol

[fredv3b]

Yet I think if I were a bit femmy that maybe that would be a sign to people that I am gay and more approachable since I am so shy myself.

Have you tried wearing a t-shirt with a slogan along the lines of 'I prefer cock'.

[Wolf]

I dont really wish i was more of one than the other. I'm more masculine in looks even though i only weigh 130 Ibs and I like to talk about cars watch sports and play games like Call of Duty. But I'm also feminine-like cause I like to chat on the phone a lot go shopping and talk about clothes.
So a good mix i guess XD.

[matty7]

im as masculine as they come but its just who i am ,,,i dont want to change . i have no probs with who i am,, makes me no less gay i think

[CellarDweller]

I tend to be an "even balance"......I've had people tell me that they could tell I was gay right way, and others will tell me that they had no clue.

I talk to straight people, and mention that I love Madonna, dance music, and watch figure skating, and they are not surprised. However, if I talk to gay people and tell them that I've gone horseback riding, and that I enjoy hiking and camping or cooking over an open fire, they say "Oh, so you're butch?"

LOL

[leeman15251]

I find it interesting that you wish you were more feminine. I actually wish I was more masculine. I'm not flaming gay and have many very masculine interests but when you meet me, usually people can tell that I am gay. And coming from a small farm town, people don't respond to it to well. I think I would be happier if I acted/came off a little more masculine because then I would be more comfortable meeting pretty much anyone. I'm the type that I can walk up and talk to anyone, but when it comes to heterosexual guys I usually quiet down because I don't want to make them feel uncomfortable.

My roommate is like you, he is very feminine but wants to be masculine. I would love to be like him, so i don't really understand why he would want to change. I have the problem of some people not believing I'm gay even after i tell them, so i don't think i would mind if people would start thinking i was gay.

[pellaz]

yo
you Masculine guys when was the last day you had a 1800 calorie day. when did you pour a garage floor. put a racing ecu in a track car.

we all work at our desk jobs and shop for food at the supermarket.

we all want to be more masculine. sure.