Ok, I have a friend that I met at work 9 1/2 years ago. Worked with him a few months and had a crush on him. He moved away shortly thereafter but about a year ago, he came back.
We've hung out ocasionally since. I thought I was past the crush....nope.
Now I think I may be falling for him but i'm not sure because it's not a constant feeling even though i'm thinking of him nearly every day now.
I've never had a bf before so i'm not sure what i'm feeling.
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do you think he is straight?
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NO, he's gay. I know it's crazy but we've had sex a few times.
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Doesn't ease my mind much. I also don't know how he feels and don't want to push him.
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well he obviously thinks you're attractive. It wouldn't be too weird to just ask him if you guys want to start 'seeing' each other.
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If you can fuck him, you can talk to him, That's what I think needs to happen so that you both know what each other wants and then be able to do what has to be done.
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" so i'm not sure what i'm feeling"
we are all so jealous.. your in love. go out on a hike, bring him flowers, , goto the movies.
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When you end your life the only things you will remember are the things you love. I still remember my first pure masculine love. His name was Gypsy. I was 5 and he was so much bigger. He trapped me on the kitchen floor. He looked me directly in the face. AND LICKED ME. I forgot to mention he was a wired hair terrier. Hey I was terrified of dogs before I met Gypsy. My neighbors let me walk him.
OK OK I lied. He walked me. So what he was close to 50 lbs heavier. I wasn't afraid of him once I knew that I loved Gypsy and Gypsy loved me. Always go for love. It's the only thing that lasts.
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Tell him you like him man, just go ahead and admit your feelings. If he likes you back, awesome, if not - meh, you still get to mess around.. :]
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Not sure where to go from here
