I Agree that he is showing some homosexual tendancies, but the rule of thumb, no one is gay until they say they are gay.
He is certainly a very empathetic man and you are lucky to have him as a friend, but until he tells you that he is gay, you have to treat the friendship as just that, a friendship.
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Zed, he knows you're gay, right? Just ask him up front if he's into guys.
You don't want to torment yourself with million of questions because of him. Get your answer so you can move on. I know it's not easy but sometimes you have to do what you to do.
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Sounds like office sexual harassment to me. In the states we can file suits and have the unwanted attentions of those types removed....
If you WANT that attention, then everything is screaming that he is very interested in you.
Its not like he is exactly hiding his desire here....
Next time you to are alone ASK HIM what he wants.
Stop trying to guess what he wants, who and what he is. If he is in a relationship and you are uncomfortable with all of this attention, TELL HIM.
Chances are he is bisexual and wants a boy on the side. Then again he might have a serious attraction and is staying with the girl because he doesn't know how to do 'being alone'. Either way ASK HIM.
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Well.. Looks like everything was nothing after all..
I didn't talk to him. I evaded him. He said hi, and I smiled back. He normally asks me what's wrong, but hey, seems he forgot about me and he's keeping his self busy with work. And seems like were not friends, I don't know how it happened. We just became regular officemates.
Looks like I was just dreaming..
It hurts to fall for someone, you shouldn't fall for.
The girls said, I need a rebound, but..
I'm not much of a player. I aint that hot either to rebound.. Geez. I suck.. Haha..
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best thing to do is bhe honest with him and ask him direct
excuse me but r u gay?
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Well, I actually asked him already.
He said no.
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Sorry Zed. It sounds like he was indeed toying with you. What a bummer. Hang in there.
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