04-25-2015, 09:14 PM
Some time ago I broke up with my ex and he has gone completely mad since. We were together for 2 years and at first everything was fine but then, as the time went on, he became extremely possessive. I donât know why but Iâm quite sure I didnât give him any reason. He was jealous at literary everyone I looked at or talked to. He started to control my phone calls and e-mails. From my side I tried everything I could to make our relationships better, I tried reasoning with him, telling him that Iâm monogamous person and that if Iâm in a relationships I donât need anyone else but my partner. I thought I loved him and I wanted to save our relationships so I even gave him passwords from my e-mails and let him look through my text messages, I know, silly, however he calmed down when he didnât find there anything suspicious. However even that didnât help, after some time his controlling behavior started again. I became tired of this and we started to alienate each from other. And then I met another guy, a wonderful guy with a beautiful, sincere personality. We fell in love and after all these exhausting relationships with my previous boyfriend, I finally felt happy and loved again.
I didn't want to lie to me ex so I had a talk with him when I told him Iâm in love with someone else and I want us to break up. I really wanted to break it off as gently as possibly but he started to behave like crazy. He considers us to still be together and looks for every possibility to meet me. He said that if he canât have me, no one can. Also he used my e-mail before I had managed to change the passwords and my boyfriend received e-mails like âyou will die, get yourself a coffinâ or â you dirty slut, my man will never be yoursâ. Of course my boyfriend got scared and so did I. The last time I saw my ex, like a week ago, he said that heâll kill both me and my boyfriend and then to not to go to prison heâll kill himself. I donât know what to think or do. We spent together 2 years and I think I know him and I donât think he would be able to do something like that, heâs not that kind of person. But Iâll be honest, Iâm scared to go out on street. Luckily he doesnât know where my boyfriend lives but he knows where I live. Yesterday I received a text message from him with a text âyouâre mine, youâll always be mine and you betrayed me and you'll pay for itâ After that I changed my phone number. I'm not so scared about myself as much as I'm scared he might somehow hurt my love. What should I do, guys? Police? Reasoning with him is pointless, as I see. Millions of people break up, so what? Why make such a drama out of it?
I didn't want to lie to me ex so I had a talk with him when I told him Iâm in love with someone else and I want us to break up. I really wanted to break it off as gently as possibly but he started to behave like crazy. He considers us to still be together and looks for every possibility to meet me. He said that if he canât have me, no one can. Also he used my e-mail before I had managed to change the passwords and my boyfriend received e-mails like âyou will die, get yourself a coffinâ or â you dirty slut, my man will never be yoursâ. Of course my boyfriend got scared and so did I. The last time I saw my ex, like a week ago, he said that heâll kill both me and my boyfriend and then to not to go to prison heâll kill himself. I donât know what to think or do. We spent together 2 years and I think I know him and I donât think he would be able to do something like that, heâs not that kind of person. But Iâll be honest, Iâm scared to go out on street. Luckily he doesnât know where my boyfriend lives but he knows where I live. Yesterday I received a text message from him with a text âyouâre mine, youâll always be mine and you betrayed me and you'll pay for itâ After that I changed my phone number. I'm not so scared about myself as much as I'm scared he might somehow hurt my love. What should I do, guys? Police? Reasoning with him is pointless, as I see. Millions of people break up, so what? Why make such a drama out of it?