I divorced my wife in straight relationship. I took many years to be totally for sure this was the correct thing to do. I know I or my wife would not have been able to just go an do it with out a lot of anger. In some ways I am glad to have taken it slow and listened to my emotions along the way and have good friends to push pull me along.
After breaking up with a boy i usually whore around, find anything that has a dick till I start thinking for my self again.
Conversely; I have become close friends with men that i admire but are in an unstable relationship, hang in there as a friend till they break up. Usually puts you first in line.
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I have been the rebound 'date' and its not pretty... As such I wait about a year after a relationship ends before accepting options to date.
There have been longer periods.....
I do not think rebound dating is necessary. In fact it may be counterproductive. I have always used post relationship periods to focus on what I did wrong and try to fix myself. I become a bit selfish and focus on the 'me' part of my life.
Out of all the things I do wrong when it comes to emotional hygiene, this is one of the few things psychologies have told me I instinctively do 'right'. :biggrin:
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I think that rebound dating is a totally selfish act, where someone innocent pays for the mistakes of someone else.
It's cruel to raise and mislead the hopes of another person.
I would say sort your self out first.
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