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• How do you find someone for that first time?

  Goatshins > 12-22-2011, 05:28 AM

  Any advice on how to find someone to start experimenting with? I am very interested in meeting up and experiencing another man, but I have absolutely no idea how to find someone.
  
  I really like my life the way it is, and I do not want to be openly gay. I just want to find someone to have sex with instead of continuing to fantasize about it for the rest of my life, you know?

• How do you find someone for that first time?

  OrphanPip > 12-22-2011, 06:05 AM

  There are tons of websites that cater to hook ups. Just google gay dating sites.

• How do you find someone for that first time?

  Kyle > 12-22-2011, 07:09 AM

  Yes, try gay dating websites. Find someone from your area, meet and try those things you are fantasizing.

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  Bowyn Aerrow > 12-22-2011, 07:46 AM

  Grid'r and other apps and sites are out there. Used to be Yahoo, MSN and Google Groups had lots of groups for hook-ups. Instant Messaging things like Yahoo used to have meeting set up chat rooms....

• How do you find someone for that first time?

  Almac > 12-22-2011, 10:15 AM

  Goatshins Wrote:Any advice on how to find someone to start experimenting with? I am very interested in meeting up and experiencing another man, but I have absolutely no idea how to find someone.

  
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  Sorry I've got to say it, but that sounds so clinical, 'experimenting with.' I suppose there are guys out there that will be interested in experimenting with you, just be careful. [/SIZE]
  
  

• How do you find someone for that first time?

  fenris > 12-22-2011, 10:17 AM

  About how to find someone the guys above have told enough.
  Maybe it is not wrong to give a other advice : Take care that you - especially for the first times till you know how you react - never go to a meeting if you are *whisper* really horny... I helped some friends through there first times... through their coming outs and I saw every time the same problem : The " Goddess ..what have I done" Problem.... it is always better to leave a meeting as to act without head :-) Start slow and secure and you wake up the next morning happy and healthy and without crying in the bathroom.

• How do you find someone for that first time?

  Goatshins > 12-22-2011, 11:58 AM

  Thanks. Any specific gay dating sites that are free? I've tried Craig's list, but it has it's limitations.
  
  Any other thoughts?

• How do you find someone for that first time?

  hamsandwizh > 12-22-2011, 06:43 PM

  One thing I've actually used, lol, not sure if I'm proud of this or not, but it is what it is, I used a website pof.com, found some guys on there.
  
  But for my first time I went to a gay bar I've been to kind of a lot before that with my best friend at the time who was lesbian and I planned on hooking up. I just got super drunk, found a tall, hot, blonde haired, blue eyed guy (my favorite by the way! lol) and just went at it back at his place! lol. I don't remember a whole lot of it though because I was super wasted but it was fun. Not recommending you get super drunk and hook up with a guy, it's just what I did.
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