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Relatively new to the whole thing.
#1
Hey guys I'm obviously new here but I'm also relatively new to the whole gay culture. I'm just here to make some friends I can be myself around.

Anyways let me tell you a little about myself. I was born in Las Vegas, which is totally different when you live there but still quite awesome. Though my father was/is in the army so we always moved around a lot. I've lived all over America and lived in Germany, Hawaii, and Korea. I finished off high school and did a little college in Washington state. Then I made the biggest mistake of my life, so far. I joined the military. Ok, ok, I know I'm being a little dramatic about it but I really can't stand it. I've been in for a little more than three years and I can't wait to get out. About a year and a half ago, that's when I lived in Korea, I finally decided that I'd try and have a relationship with a man. By the way I am bi but up to this point I had only been with women and only looked at gay porn. I hadn't even really met any other gay men. So with exactly -10 experience I decided that I'd just wing it and treat it like being with any other person I'd been with. It had actually worked, at least for the talking part but when it came to getting physical it was a little more complicated. After a few trys with a few guys, all with no success I was ready to just give it up, but then on the very first day that I arrived at my next duty station I met someone who shall hence forth be dubbed DVNT. Me and him have been together for over a year now. He's awesome but I can't really talk to him about all the things I really want to so that's why I'm here. I'm looking for other gay people to chat with and make friends I can be myself around.
#2
Hey, Welcome to the site! Smile I'm glad you found you're match. And this is a really great place you can find some amazing friends! Smile
#3
welcome to GaySpeak. We all appreciate your up front intro and hope you get here what is it you need. We hope you stay and help others if you can.
#4
Hello and welcome to the forums! Confusedmile:

Sounds like you have traveled quite a bit in your life....I'm quite envious now :biggrin:

Hope you enjoy yourself here and make many new friends.
#5
Welcome DVS Wavey

You'd be surprised by how not alone you are, in both your situation and in general.

I'm really glad your doing good and happy, besides the Military thing it seems... and I don't blame you. For boys here, when we go 18, we're scripted and it's manditory, while for girls it's optional, but now people are fighting against the Manditory conscription and the sexist fundamentalism that exists in our Regiment [not Army/Military, but it's sort of the same thing, atleast to me lol].

I can't be conscripted, because technically, on paper, I'm legally blind, so therefore, cannot wield any weapon, so I won't be allowed to participate in the Regiment, which is fine by me Biggrinflip .

But anyway! I hope you have fun here. You'll meet many interesting Queers here[I use that term with endearment ofcourse Wink ] and you might even make some friends, which is probably inevitable, seeing as how most everyone here is friendly :biggrin:

Talker Sorry I'm a Jabberjaw [not like the Shark from the Cartoon; Jabberjaw :tongue: ]
I luh de vibe enuh! Sheep

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#6
Hello DVS, Welcome to the forum.
#7
G day and welcome to Gaysepak. I hope you find what you are looking for Wink
#8
Welcome to the coummity
#9
Hi welcome to Gayspeak. Confusedmile:
#10
Hello and Welcome


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