Relatively new to the whole thing.
09-17-2012, 05:43 PM
Hey guys I'm obviously new here but I'm also relatively new to the whole gay culture. I'm just here to make some friends I can be myself around.
Anyways let me tell you a little about myself. I was born in Las Vegas, which is totally different when you live there but still quite awesome. Though my father was/is in the army so we always moved around a lot. I've lived all over America and lived in Germany, Hawaii, and Korea. I finished off high school and did a little college in Washington state. Then I made the biggest mistake of my life, so far. I joined the military. Ok, ok, I know I'm being a little dramatic about it but I really can't stand it. I've been in for a little more than three years and I can't wait to get out. About a year and a half ago, that's when I lived in Korea, I finally decided that I'd try and have a relationship with a man. By the way I am bi but up to this point I had only been with women and only looked at gay porn. I hadn't even really met any other gay men. So with exactly -10 experience I decided that I'd just wing it and treat it like being with any other person I'd been with. It had actually worked, at least for the talking part but when it came to getting physical it was a little more complicated. After a few trys with a few guys, all with no success I was ready to just give it up, but then on the very first day that I arrived at my next duty station I met someone who shall hence forth be dubbed DVNT. Me and him have been together for over a year now. He's awesome but I can't really talk to him about all the things I really want to so that's why I'm here. I'm looking for other gay people to chat with and make friends I can be myself around.
Anyways let me tell you a little about myself. I was born in Las Vegas, which is totally different when you live there but still quite awesome. Though my father was/is in the army so we always moved around a lot. I've lived all over America and lived in Germany, Hawaii, and Korea. I finished off high school and did a little college in Washington state. Then I made the biggest mistake of my life, so far. I joined the military. Ok, ok, I know I'm being a little dramatic about it but I really can't stand it. I've been in for a little more than three years and I can't wait to get out. About a year and a half ago, that's when I lived in Korea, I finally decided that I'd try and have a relationship with a man. By the way I am bi but up to this point I had only been with women and only looked at gay porn. I hadn't even really met any other gay men. So with exactly -10 experience I decided that I'd just wing it and treat it like being with any other person I'd been with. It had actually worked, at least for the talking part but when it came to getting physical it was a little more complicated. After a few trys with a few guys, all with no success I was ready to just give it up, but then on the very first day that I arrived at my next duty station I met someone who shall hence forth be dubbed DVNT. Me and him have been together for over a year now. He's awesome but I can't really talk to him about all the things I really want to so that's why I'm here. I'm looking for other gay people to chat with and make friends I can be myself around.
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I'm glad you found you're match. And this is a really great place you can find some amazing friends! 
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] and you might even make some friends, which is probably inevitable, seeing as how most everyone here is friendly :biggrin:
Sorry I'm a Jabberjaw [not like the Shark from the Cartoon; Jabberjaw :tongue: ]
DVS, 
to the forum.
Scorpio
