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#1
So there's this guy and we've been flirting online and by text for a while now and I asked him to be my boyfriend after a couple weeks of getting to know each other. He lives about 50 miles away, or about a 2 hour drive(by bus). Neither of us can drive, he turns 16 in a month, and i can't get my license until I'm 19... He works a lot of a farm/vineyard so I have no idea when he's free or not and I really want to meet him somewhere:/ anybody have advice?
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Newbie1021 Wrote:So there's this guy and we've been flirting online and by text for a while now and I asked him to be my boyfriend after a couple weeks of getting to know each other. He lives about 50 miles away, or about a 2 hour drive(by bus). Neither of us can drive, he turns 16 in a month, and i can't get my license until I'm 19... He works a lot of a farm/vineyard so I have no idea when he's free or not and I really want to meet him somewhere:/ anybody have advice?

If you are going to meet someone off the internet, for safety purposes it should be in a public place, choose a restaurant or mall or something in a place somewhere between you two. Also, be sure to tell at least one person where you're going, you don't have to tell them exactly why.
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#3
SAFETY first!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't be immature or stupid about safety because being safe makes you more attractive to real men who are worth your effort! Be safe! HAVE FUN!!!!!!
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#4
meet half way in a public place, setup for a date, see a movie meet at a coffee shop
dont lower your standards
condom and lube
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#5
if its the first time you meet would it matter if you both took along a friend ? or be dropped off my a family member etc who gets to meet this othe lad ? , always make sure you have a picture too that a parent or friend can have too - ask him to email you one if he hasnt already, if he makes excusses about this then think why !!! i hope he's a genuine lovely lad for you but always take care - dont let your heart rule your head just yet - gd luck though
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#6
Before you meet him, chat on video first to make sure tht he is who he claims to be, safety first Smile
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#7
I say... DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! but then again, Im deadly against meeting people online.
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#8
It's too easy to take simple steps to make it okay. Times have changed. Be responsible and GO FOR IT! I totally LOVE the suggestion of video chat because it is FREE and easy to do. G+ is a great way to do it to...simply have a 'hang out' with him. You can arrange to use a webcam at a local internet cafe for free or next to nothing for a few minutes just to meet. Let us all know how it goes!!!!!!!
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#9
Please play it safe , meet in public tell someone where you are going.
Have a friend or family member at the place you meet, they do not have to be next to you.

Before you meet get a photo and his address to be on the safe side.
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