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08-03-2012, 09:59 AM

So there's this guy and we've been flirting online and by text for a while now and I asked him to be my boyfriend after a couple weeks of getting to know each other. He lives about 50 miles away, or about a 2 hour drive(by bus). Neither of us can drive, he turns 16 in a month, and i can't get my license until I'm 19... He works a lot of a farm/vineyard so I have no idea when he's free or not and I really want to meet him somewhere:/ anybody have advice?

08-03-2012, 10:14 AM

Newbie1021 Wrote:So there's this guy and we've been flirting online and by text for a while now and I asked him to be my boyfriend after a couple weeks of getting to know each other. He lives about 50 miles away, or about a 2 hour drive(by bus). Neither of us can drive, he turns 16 in a month, and i can't get my license until I'm 19... He works a lot of a farm/vineyard so I have no idea when he's free or not and I really want to meet him somewhere:/ anybody have advice?

If you are going to meet someone off the internet, for safety purposes it should be in a public place, choose a restaurant or mall or something in a place somewhere between you two. Also, be sure to tell at least one person where you're going, you don't have to tell them exactly why.

ChadCoxRox · 08-03-2012, 01:42 PM

SAFETY first!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't be immature or stupid about safety because being safe makes you more attractive to real men who are worth your effort! Be safe! HAVE FUN!!!!!!

08-03-2012, 05:14 PM

meet half way in a public place, setup for a date, see a movie meet at a coffee shop
dont lower your standards
condom and lube

08-03-2012, 06:02 PM

if its the first time you meet would it matter if you both took along a friend ? or be dropped off my a family member etc who gets to meet this othe lad ? , always make sure you have a picture too that a parent or friend can have too - ask him to email you one if he hasnt already, if he makes excusses about this then think why !!! i hope he's a genuine lovely lad for you but always take care - dont let your heart rule your head just yet - gd luck though

08-03-2012, 08:53 PM

Before you meet him, chat on video first to make sure tht he is who he claims to be, safety first Smile

08-03-2012, 11:15 PM

I say... DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! but then again, Im deadly against meeting people online.

ChadCoxRox · 08-03-2012, 11:30 PM

It's too easy to take simple steps to make it okay. Times have changed. Be responsible and GO FOR IT! I totally LOVE the suggestion of video chat because it is FREE and easy to do. G+ is a great way to do it to...simply have a 'hang out' with him. You can arrange to use a webcam at a local internet cafe for free or next to nothing for a few minutes just to meet. Let us all know how it goes!!!!!!!

08-04-2012, 04:55 AM

Please play it safe , meet in public tell someone where you are going.
Have a friend or family member at the place you meet, they do not have to be next to you.

Before you meet get a photo and his address to be on the safe side.