12-20-2007, 09:07 PM
yeah manhunt, gay.com, and adam4adam are all sites imo where you go to look for a one night stand, you don't go there expecting to find a partner.
If you choose to go through the internet route, I would stick with match.com and yahoo personals. I did both, got rejected a lot, but eventually I was contacted by my partner. It works, but you gotta get past the rejection.
Only you can choose to feel something and let something bother you. You really need to learn to care a little less and be happy with what you have. No one is ever going to find a partner if they aren't mostly happy by themselves.
I was not looking for my other half when I opened my accounts. I was happy on my own and was quite busy. I was a whole person to begin with and my partner is just the icing on the cake (even though sometimes I want to scrape the icing off and throw it in the trash because he's being a f*cking idiot......but that's another story).
Maybe you should work on your mental health as much as your physical health. It's been established by this community that you are not ugly, so you don't have to worry as much about that, but what you should do is working on how to make yourself happy. Read some self help books, go see a shrink (mine helped mee), go see your doctor (you might have a depression problem, I do and the meds seem to work... my mood swings aren't as severe as they were in the past and I'm having less anxiety issues), just work on trying to make yourself happy.
If you choose to go through the internet route, I would stick with match.com and yahoo personals. I did both, got rejected a lot, but eventually I was contacted by my partner. It works, but you gotta get past the rejection.
Only you can choose to feel something and let something bother you. You really need to learn to care a little less and be happy with what you have. No one is ever going to find a partner if they aren't mostly happy by themselves.
I was not looking for my other half when I opened my accounts. I was happy on my own and was quite busy. I was a whole person to begin with and my partner is just the icing on the cake (even though sometimes I want to scrape the icing off and throw it in the trash because he's being a f*cking idiot......but that's another story).
Maybe you should work on your mental health as much as your physical health. It's been established by this community that you are not ugly, so you don't have to worry as much about that, but what you should do is working on how to make yourself happy. Read some self help books, go see a shrink (mine helped mee), go see your doctor (you might have a depression problem, I do and the meds seem to work... my mood swings aren't as severe as they were in the past and I'm having less anxiety issues), just work on trying to make yourself happy.
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