08-30-2012, 01:43 PM
I think Rainbowmums advice hit the nail on the head.
You have to learn that YOU are solely responsible for your moralic questions in all things who turn around your sexuality, your relationships and so on. At the moment you want to live a bisexual life with a heterosexual moral ... that don´t work.
Important is that your sexual life don´t hurt anyone.... that you do nothing against the free will of your partner. Accept your own sexuality and maybe fetishes. My opinion is very easy : I tell my man what I want ... He tells me what he wants .... and if we both want it ... OK .. no moralic problem :-) Then it is possible to allow your Partner things which don´t turn you on but your partner want it ... as long as they don´t are against your own feelings... it is OK, too. Same if you want something what don´t turns your partner on .. but he can allow is as long as it don´t works against his own moral.
As long as both accept.... there is no problem....
You have to learn that YOU are solely responsible for your moralic questions in all things who turn around your sexuality, your relationships and so on. At the moment you want to live a bisexual life with a heterosexual moral ... that don´t work.
Important is that your sexual life don´t hurt anyone.... that you do nothing against the free will of your partner. Accept your own sexuality and maybe fetishes. My opinion is very easy : I tell my man what I want ... He tells me what he wants .... and if we both want it ... OK .. no moralic problem :-) Then it is possible to allow your Partner things which don´t turn you on but your partner want it ... as long as they don´t are against your own feelings... it is OK, too. Same if you want something what don´t turns your partner on .. but he can allow is as long as it don´t works against his own moral.
As long as both accept.... there is no problem....