09-02-2012, 02:14 PM
I would like to add just one thing to PA's excellent response.
Some of our sexuality is "fluid". Not everyone, but some of us will "evolve" or "modify" or whatever, over time...
Most of the members here will remember when I originally joined I picked the label "bisexual"--not out of accuracy, but more out of convenience.
Now I identify as gay.
We grow; we change; we adapt; we evolve. This is the problem with labels. They're convenient but not accurate.
So whatever you do, just be HONEST with your partner about who you are and what you're looking for.
Some of our sexuality is "fluid". Not everyone, but some of us will "evolve" or "modify" or whatever, over time...
Most of the members here will remember when I originally joined I picked the label "bisexual"--not out of accuracy, but more out of convenience.
Now I identify as gay.
We grow; we change; we adapt; we evolve. This is the problem with labels. They're convenient but not accurate.
So whatever you do, just be HONEST with your partner about who you are and what you're looking for.