A hetero-homo-bi guy's questions...

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I don't think so. You seem to understand very well what you like and I don't think there's a need to find acceptance over it or call it something. I think that just might be a fetish of yours. I know a straight guy (and I'm sure I've used this example several times already) who has a fetish for gay sex. He only talks about with a few us usually just when intoxicatd. He has no romantic feelings for men and doesn't go around talking about how "hot" guys are but sometimes he would just like to be fucked in the ass by a guy or suck a dick.

I have what I call a fetish for older guys, I think it's just a way to feel dominated for me at least and since I am not you (or straight) I don't think I can even try to guess at WHY you like older guys but I don't feel that the why really matters. You like who you like.

I'm also going to add that in BobInTampas's post I answer no to both. Okay maybe there was a minor incident with an older guy when I was a teen but my "fetish" existed well before that.

There's nothing wrong with you, you just have sexual preferences that maybe the majority of people don't have. But are you supposed to? Are we all supposed to be sexually the same? Nope. Until we're all the same person, and that won't happen, we get to like what we like (assuming all parties are consenting adults) you don't need labels or justification for being yourself. You just need to be.