02-18-2014, 10:33 AM
Thanks for all the advice guys. As for those dating apps, I checked out both Grindr and Hornet. I only found 3 people who seem to be from my school, although it could be more, but I can't tell because of the biggest problem I have with these apps. Every guy's "profile" is just a couple pictures of them (usually with their shirts off), their physical features, and an extremely brief (if it's even there at all) description of themselves which I get nothing from.
"hey"
"looking for friends to hang with, and maybe something more"
"bottom here"
"LOOKING FOR A MASCULINE GUY. NO FEMS. I WANT SOMEONE "NORMAL" LIKE ME."
"interested in meeting new people"
It's nothing like the dating sites where people are able to give long descriptions of themselves, explain their interests, hobbies, likes/dislikes, their faith, political views, whether they're a smoker or drinker, and all that good stuff. It's clearly designed for hook ups. A few of you did make a point that I'm probably not ready for a relationship, but I also don't think I wanna do a one night stand either. It seems so...dirty. Even though I am mostly curious if I'd even like being with a guy to begin with, a big part of me doesn't want to do a one nighter because it goes against my own morals that sex and kisses and whatnot should be something special. Maybe if I'm horny enough I won't care...
I'll probably just try making more friends first. I'm not completely friendless, I have a good friend I hang out with every weekend, but I guess you can never have too many...right?
"hey"
"looking for friends to hang with, and maybe something more"
"bottom here"
"LOOKING FOR A MASCULINE GUY. NO FEMS. I WANT SOMEONE "NORMAL" LIKE ME."
"interested in meeting new people"
It's nothing like the dating sites where people are able to give long descriptions of themselves, explain their interests, hobbies, likes/dislikes, their faith, political views, whether they're a smoker or drinker, and all that good stuff. It's clearly designed for hook ups. A few of you did make a point that I'm probably not ready for a relationship, but I also don't think I wanna do a one night stand either. It seems so...dirty. Even though I am mostly curious if I'd even like being with a guy to begin with, a big part of me doesn't want to do a one nighter because it goes against my own morals that sex and kisses and whatnot should be something special. Maybe if I'm horny enough I won't care...
I'll probably just try making more friends first. I'm not completely friendless, I have a good friend I hang out with every weekend, but I guess you can never have too many...right?