08-07-2014, 07:10 PM
If you are in the "perfect relationship"..... you understand the value of trust and truth and communication...so why haven't you told your partner yet?
The real problem is that you went anywhere with the jerk a second time. You need to own that. You went from being a victim..to not being one....when that happened.
So...tell your BF what you did and then start asking yourself why you went anywhere with that guy again! A little self awareness goes a long way.
One more thing...HURRY before the jerk figures out how freaked out you are and decides to tell your BF himself. It sounds like he may be getting off on you being a "victim" and resisting him......
The real problem is that you went anywhere with the jerk a second time. You need to own that. You went from being a victim..to not being one....when that happened.
So...tell your BF what you did and then start asking yourself why you went anywhere with that guy again! A little self awareness goes a long way.
One more thing...HURRY before the jerk figures out how freaked out you are and decides to tell your BF himself. It sounds like he may be getting off on you being a "victim" and resisting him......
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