Finding Male Friends

[Bookworm]

My two best friends IRL are both male and straight, and have been my closest friends for nearly 30 years now. We know each other so well that we can sometimes preempt what the others are thinking, we seem so attuned to each others wavelengths, weird but true. I was so far in closet when I was younger that neither even suspected that I was gay (and were not bothered in the slightest when I finally came out after much agonizing and procrastination.) Our friendship transcended all that messy judgmental stuff.

Although we met at school, we soon realised that we all had similar interests and our friendship blossomed from there, so yes, I would strongly advise on getting involved in activities that interest you, and you will soon meet like-minded individuals who you can relate too on many levels. The friendship dynamics will fall into place during the natural course of whatever you decide to pursue. So, get out there and enjoy the journey mile:

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