No one is messaging me

[InbetweenDreams]

Plenty of fish

I'm on POF as well...

I usually meet nicer guys on there but it is few and far between, there are less people on there..

My advice would be to remove it from your profile, not to hide it though. I mean if someone likes you well enough to carry on a conversation then maybe tell them. Once someone likes you and takes interest, those sort of things don't cloud up the waters. It is a shame but putting out things like that, like in my case my weight... If I put on POF or whatever that I weighed 220 lbs or whatever people are going to assume I'm a fat fuck...that's the truth, even if they themselves aren't a model that's just how humans operate... Now if I talk to someone and they like me and meet me they can see me and while I could stand to lose weight I don't look like 220... I know that's kind of apples and oranges here, but if I saw a guy on POF who I thought was handsome but had a disability I would still message them. I even tried talking to a guy I thought was cute who was autistic, except it just didn't work -- no chemistry there. Mind you this was a case where he was a high functioning person with autism.

Anyway, I wonder a lot about why people in general do suck... not that I'm some kind of shinning example of what humanity ought to be or anything... I've certainly been a asshole to people and in a lot of cases rightly so, even if I'm still in the wrong.

That being said... Do what you think is best and you certainly shouldn't let the lack of, assholes, get you down because they don't understand your disability or if it is some kind of deal breaker...