How important is anal sex to gay/bi men?

[richhix56]

I am fairly new to all this but wanted to post here instead of making a new topic. I had to take the time to do some research on words such as rimming. In my experience I have had very hot bisexual man friend before who were only into oral and non romance foreplay like kissing etc. and definitely not anal play. most definitely If I was really into the guy emotionally and romantically and wanted to bring him pleasure I would give oral, I just could not do it casually or randomly being very monogamous. Having deep feelings for the guy would definitely be a deal breaker for giving oral and anal rimming, but the way my fantasies play out I am more of a bottom and passive lover at any rate have yet to have full and total experiences and that really sucks at my age! BTW that hot bi friend I had never got anything from me. We were even friends/roommates. Things were very plutonic with us and the friendship ended abruptly!