Never! No Chance!

[InbetweenDreams]

So what are the concerns you have about coming out? Not suggesting that you do, or don't. And yes, once the cat is out of the bag you can't put it back in. There is a comfort in not taking action but there are risks in that as well. One thing is for sure you do find out who your true friends are and how people are. What I can say just in my personal experience most people don't really care. That being said, I don't think coming out means you have to tell everyone, you tell who you want to tell it to...friends and family in my case. I don't feel the need to get a megaphone and tell the general public.

As far as confusion about what you are. Well, I'm 35 and I kind still don't know what label fits me. I like men and I also like women, but have no experience in that department to speak of. So yeah, do I tell people I'm gay...or bi, maybe I'm pan? If you're still figuring things out don't feel pressured to tell everyone. You do that stuff when you're good and ready to so.