11-18-2010, 02:26 PM
Hm, I see all of my straight male friends as brothers. That helps me. All of my close straight friends (Colleagues and friends outside office) know that I am gay by now. They see me as a brother too.
There was this one time where I almost had a crush on this one particular guy. He works in a different company but on the same floor. One day he told me that he's married with two children. I almost died laughing.
I then converted him as a friend and a big brother. Big bro indeed as he loves to give me advices regarding to future etc. "I don't care if you have a girlfriend or a partner, you need to have one by now as time waits for no men." He once said to me.
Maybe the key is to restraint oneself from seeing every guy as a sexual object.
Sorry I can't help much, Mooninleo.
There was this one time where I almost had a crush on this one particular guy. He works in a different company but on the same floor. One day he told me that he's married with two children. I almost died laughing.
I then converted him as a friend and a big brother. Big bro indeed as he loves to give me advices regarding to future etc. "I don't care if you have a girlfriend or a partner, you need to have one by now as time waits for no men." He once said to me.
Maybe the key is to restraint oneself from seeing every guy as a sexual object.
Sorry I can't help much, Mooninleo.
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