Tips to be a good top?

[HandyChef]

So this is kind of a long story. I have a friend that I always believed to be straight. He labeled himself as straight. But, I've always liked him more then a friend, but I respected his sexuality and never made any moves or told him that I did in fact like him like that. One night me and a few friends went out, got completely sloshed. When we were alone, he admitted to me that he loves anal. But he had never been with a guy, he had just used things around the house. A Mag Light flashlight one time (:eek: lol) He said he thinks he's bi and would like to be with a guy. So this was my chance. I admitted that I always had a secret like for him too. He said he liked me too and we have so much in common. He said he wanted to go back to my place and ask how big my cock was. Before anything happened, he puked before we even left the bar, and he was done for good.

Last weekend 3 of us went out of town, we stayed in a hotel. When we got back from going to a few bars, I said I'm going to go take a shower. He said can I jump in there with you and winked at me. So we are in the shower and he said, "That wasn't just the alcohol talking last weekend, I really do like anal, and that's the reason I joined you in the shower." I'm pretty hammered at this point, we proceed to shower and talk for a little bit, then he said Lets do it. So we proceed to try to have sex. Well, pretty much all that happened was I ended up fingering him, because I was too drunk to get hard enough. Pretty embarrassing to say the least. He was Ok with it though.

Anyway, I'm a bottom, always have been, but I like to please other people too, so I would like to top as well. I was just wanting some tips on topping so next time we hook up, I won't fumble around so much, not knowing what I'm doing.

Any help is appreciated!
HandyChef