10-09-2012, 11:58 AM
So I'm in this relationship with this younger guy now for a little over 3 months, and up until recently things have been going great. We've been seeing each other on the weekends due to him being in college 45 minutes away, but that hasn't really been a big problem. But over the past couple of weeks things have been different.
He has seemed distant to me, like he's either got something on his mind or he's not into me anymore. I know that he's been extremely busy with his classes, plus he's in a play at school that has taken up a lot of his time. But still, I don't understand why he's acting this way.
This past weekend was the worst! We talked some via text and we talked on the phone for about ten minutes Saturday, but Sunday we barely talked at all. And, call me crazy or obsessed or whatever, but him not responding hardly on Sunday really hurt.
I finally text him yesterday morning and asked him if he was mad at me and he said he wasn't. He said he's just been really busy and stressed. I said ok, but if he's stressed shouldn't I be the one he leans on? Couldn't he at least take 3 to 5 minutes to respond to my text?
So last night was final dress rehearsal for the play and he told me that he would be done around 9:30. I told him that was fine that I should still be up then and he could call me. No call. I waited until 11 o'clock last night and no fucking call! I finally text him and told him I was going to bed and told him what my work schedule is for today and that if he wasn't too busy he could call me on my lunch break or text me throughout the day. Otherwise I'd talk to him when I come over Wednesday night to see the play.
Am I reading too much into this? Is he just busy or is something else going on?
He has seemed distant to me, like he's either got something on his mind or he's not into me anymore. I know that he's been extremely busy with his classes, plus he's in a play at school that has taken up a lot of his time. But still, I don't understand why he's acting this way.
This past weekend was the worst! We talked some via text and we talked on the phone for about ten minutes Saturday, but Sunday we barely talked at all. And, call me crazy or obsessed or whatever, but him not responding hardly on Sunday really hurt.
I finally text him yesterday morning and asked him if he was mad at me and he said he wasn't. He said he's just been really busy and stressed. I said ok, but if he's stressed shouldn't I be the one he leans on? Couldn't he at least take 3 to 5 minutes to respond to my text?
So last night was final dress rehearsal for the play and he told me that he would be done around 9:30. I told him that was fine that I should still be up then and he could call me. No call. I waited until 11 o'clock last night and no fucking call! I finally text him and told him I was going to bed and told him what my work schedule is for today and that if he wasn't too busy he could call me on my lunch break or text me throughout the day. Otherwise I'd talk to him when I come over Wednesday night to see the play.
Am I reading too much into this? Is he just busy or is something else going on?
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